Children's imitation
The way children learn is imitation, and their first imitation object is their dear parents. Therefore, parents are not only children's first teachers, but also children's growth partners.
The influence of critical period
Children's behavior is not so much genetic as the crystallization of early imitation. Parents' words and deeds and family environment play a key role in the formation of children's character.
Parents' attitude
Parents' ideological morality and attitudes towards beauty, ugliness, good and evil, right and wrong are all nutrients for children's growth. If parents are sincere and civilized, children will become educated people.
The harm of inconsistency between words and deeds
If parents don't match their words with their deeds, no matter how they teach them, it is difficult to convince their children and may even lead to their rebellious mentality. Therefore, as parents, we must always examine our words and deeds and set an example.
lead by example
Parents must first believe the truth that children are required to believe; Parents should first do what their children are asked to do; Parents should also avoid what their children are asked not to do. Even if you make mistakes occasionally, you should be brave in apologizing and correcting them, which will help children distinguish right from wrong and seek truth from facts.
The teachings of Confucius
Confucius once said: "He is upright and does not command; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. This is the best explanation that "example" is more important than "example" in family education. Let's lead by example and set an example worthy of emulation for our children!