1. Change from paternalism to respect for children. The real change of parents' educational concept should start with the real discovery and respect of children, always remind themselves to avoid bringing workplace evaluation standards into education, listen carefully to children's voices, and let children really participate in their own decision-making on learning and activity arrangements.
2. Behind the high score is the indifference or even breakdown of parent-child relationship in many families. Parents must realize that it is of course important for their children to succeed in the future, but it is more important to be physically and mentally healthy and have their own. A good education should give children more rights and opportunities to discover themselves and develop their interests.
3. On the one hand, schools should appropriately transfer more opportunities and let parents participate more in school education activities; On the other hand, parents should also take the initiative to strengthen communication with schools and teachers, and dynamically understand the all-round development of children. A more scientific and reasonable communication mechanism should be established between home and school, so as to reach a better educational consensus and cultivate educational cooperation, thus alleviating social education anxiety more effectively.
Historical background of educational anxiety
China's one-child policy for more than 30 years has given the originally ambitious people of China more economic strength to raise their children, but at the same time it has also caused abnormal development of education. Six adults are facing a child. "Everyone's educational goal is to cultivate children into tall' genius' children."
The communiqué of the Fifth Plenary Session of the 18th CPC Central Committee pointed out that we should promote balanced population development, adhere to the basic national policy of family planning, improve the population development strategy, fully implement the policy that a couple can have two children, and actively carry out actions to deal with the aging population. Fully liberalizing the two-child policy will greatly alleviate the growing educational anxiety in China for more than 30 years. Parents who have high expectations for their children's development goals, this kind of educational anxiety from the birth of their children and some parents' neurotic attitude towards parenting will definitely be diluted.