Inconsistent role expectations
In the process of parenting, if parents have different expectations of their respective roles, it is easy to have conflicts when dealing with children's problems.
The pace of life is disrupted.
Taking care of the baby has greatly changed the rhythm of family life, such as the adjustment of diet and sleep time. If the rhythm between husband and wife is not harmonious, friction is inevitable.
Personality and hobbies are very different.
Differences in personality and interests between husband and wife may be magnified when raising children, and differences or values can easily lead to contradictions.
Children's health and education
Parenting involves children's health, education and other major issues, and different positions of husband and wife can easily lead to disputes.
Uneven distribution of housework
There are many trivial matters in parenting, and uneven distribution of housework may lead to excessive pressure on one party and lead to quarrels between husband and wife.
Economic pressure doubled
Parenting brings huge economic burden, and how to deal with family budget and other issues may lead to differences between husband and wife.
Communication and tacit understanding
In order to live in harmony, husband and wife should strengthen communication, enhance tacit understanding and rational division of labor. Understanding and support from family members are equally important. The key to parenting is to walk hand in hand, understand each other and support each other.