Second, concretization: You mean that children's learning attitudes and habits are particularly bad. Can you elaborate on it? Or give a few examples. (Ask parents what their attitude is particularly bad, and highlight the word "special", because most parents are full of emotions when they say this, so the real situation may not be as serious as imagined.
Third, to explore the causes of the problem, specific analysis:
A problem of learning attitude: parents of children in grades 4-6 think that the problem of learning attitude is often that they have not formed a good "learning view", that is, they don't know what they are studying for. And it may also be some ideas imposed on children by parents, and children don't recognize them.
Solve:
(1) Find time to talk calmly with your children about your understanding of learning. Even if parents are not satisfied with their children's answers, don't try to correct them through direct criticism and responsibility, which is basically useless to older children. Both sides should express their views first, and then find one that both sides agree with.
(2) If you have a good relationship with your parents, you can also guide your parents to think independently. Are those learning attitudes and concepts expected by parents or students? Do parents expect too much from their children? If the expectation is too high, we should guide to lower it appropriately.
B study habits: bad study habits will also lead to students' low learning efficiency and decreased grades.
Solve:
(1) Make a study plan with your child. The more detailed the better, the stronger the operability.
(2) Help children understand that learning is a complete process, including "preview before class+careful listening+homework practice after class+consolidation review+promotion of key and difficult points+knowledge mastery test". In school, we often solve three problems, namely, in-class explanation, after-class exercises and tests, while "preview before class, consolidate review, and improve key and difficult points" need to be completed at home. You can usually prepare the wrong question book and record the wrong questions. If parents think that their children's study habits can't be well developed, they need teachers from professional institutions to help them establish good habits.