As parents, the education of children should start from their own psychological preparation, and then with the growth of children's age, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, guide them according to the situation and change with the times. Parents' educational psychology is an important basis for educational methods. Therefore, I mainly discuss from the perspective of psychology:

First, we should have the mentality of making friends with children.

With children's psychological closeness, you can understand children's psychological changes in different growth periods and different situations, and you can solve their problems and difficulties with children.

There was once a cartoon describing the psychological analysis of a fourth-grade student: a fourth-grade child was sitting on the ground crying, and his parents were hitting him on the head. Parents said, "We gave you all our thoughts. What else do you want from us? " . But the child said, "Why didn't you give birth to me with instructions?" Yes, there are instructions for household appliances and everything. If you don't follow the instructions, something will go wrong. But our child has no instructions, so we need to know his personality characteristics carefully. Different education methods should be adopted for different children, otherwise there will be problems. Simply beating and cursing is definitely not a good idea, and it will do more harm to children. When children enter middle school, their thoughts change from simple to complex, which means that they think more things and start to have their own intentions and plans, which means that some parents are saying, "Our children are very strong and don't listen to their parents." But their discrimination is very weak. We don't know the right and wrong in society, and we don't fully understand what we can and can't do. This requires parents to give their children some instructions and warnings, often remind him of what to do and what not to do, and give him a clear direction. It should be noted that the "tune" of adults must be consistent. I don't want my father to say that and my mother to say that, so that the child can't speak clearly.

Second, parents should pay attention to the following aspects in their usual education.

1. Really care about children

(1) Leave some time for the children.

Spend a certain amount of time communicating with children every day and spare some time to accompany them. The length of time is not important, but take some time to sit down every day, ask your children about their studies, and exchange ideas and feelings with them. Some parents may say that students are at school all day and have no time to talk to them. This is not right. Time is like water in a sponge. It's extruded. After going home every week, you can watch less TV and play less computer, and adjust the time for drinking tea with friends to the time for children to go to school.