Reflection on Harvard Family Instructions (1)
Harvard Family Instructions is a book with rich educational functions and profound life significance. The book introduces the key to the success of many celebrities, and there are also many seemingly ordinary but profound stories. It can make a person from mediocre to extraordinary, from failure to success, shocking.
When I opened the cover, the first thing I saw was a few lines in the catalog, "Character? Standing on the cornerstone of life, dreaming? Decorate the scenery of the years, true love? Endless heartbeat? " Turn further down and you will be deeply attracted. That's what I am. I have read these stories over and over again, and I am never tired of reading them. Among them, Laughing without Tears left a deep impression on me and shocked me.
The hero of this story is Cindy. When she was studying in a medical university, she unfortunately suffered from a terrible "multiple chemical allergy". So far, there is no cure for this disease, which makes Cindy allergic to perfume, shampoo and all the chemicals she comes into contact with in her daily life. Even the air may cause her bronchial inflammation. A few years before her illness, Cindy always drooled, her urine turned green, and toxic sweat stimulated her back to form scars. She can't even go to the fire mattress, otherwise it will cause palpitations and limb convulsions. She can only live in a non-toxic room, isolated from the world. What's more frightening is that she can't shed tears, because her tears are equally poisonous. But she was not intimidated by these things, and she still lived happily until her death. She once said, "I feel full in this silent world." Because I can't cry, I choose to smile. "After reading this, I was completely shocked. What a terrible disease, what a painful life. No flowers, no cheerful birds, no sunshine, running water and wind. The gray world, like a dead life, how can people bear it? Maybe when disaster comes, people can try to avoid it; If you can't avoid it, fight: if you can't open it, you have to endure it; If you can't stand it, you will cry; What if you can't even cry? Despair or let go? Cindy in the article is just the opposite. She chose to smile. She smiled at life, and her smile replaced her pain. She spent the rest of her life smiling. Cindy's courage reminds me of me in reality. I am at home.
Living a carefree life in the park, I can't suffer anything. Every time I encounter a little difficulty, I shake my head again and again, sigh constantly, and even cry bitterly. Now that I think about it, why bother? Is the difficulty I met really that big? Even if there is, why should we solve it by crying and letting go? Why not do it again with a smile from another angle? Wouldn't it be better? Life is not what we think, it is a foregone conclusion arranged by God. If you don't like it, you can work hard, and you can gather your courage into strength to overturn the foregone conclusion and create a world that satisfies you.
Life is so short and so long. Year after year, when you are still trying to learn "A, E, O?" At that time, suddenly, I graduated from primary school. Although life is like an endless sea, no one can predict the future, but you can deal with it confidently and optimistically and work hard, then you will succeed. If I were a bird, I would be a young eagle flying in the sky forever; If I were a wave in the sea, I would be the bravest wave rushing ahead. In short, I want to be strong and brave! "Harvard Family Instructions" has benefited me for life!
Reflections on Harvard Family Instructions II
Occasionally see a book by a colleague? Harvard Family Instructions, after I turned it over, the short story in the book immediately attracted me like a magnet. I really couldn't put it down, so I finished reading the book at one go.
When I opened the cover, the first thing I saw was a few lines in the catalogue: "Character? Standing on the cornerstone of life, dreaming? Decorate the scenery of the years, true love? Endless heartbeat? " Looking further down, every little story contains a great truth, which inspires me, touches my thoughts and sublimates my soul.
Harvard Family Instructions is not only a teaching material for teachers, but also an educational guide for adults. Many people who want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed always think that children should not do this or that, but they often run counter to it. Parents think they are better than their children, but this is not the case. If we don't do better than children, we should at least grow up with them. This book has written more than 200 vivid stories with the theme of "personality, dream, true love, success, thinking, psychology, wisdom, creativity, courage and consciousness". Every story is thought-provoking and memorable, reflecting many truths of life, making people feel close to reading, as if a bright lamp lit up their hearts and refreshed me.
Harvard University has trained seven presidents, 34 Nobel Prize winners and hundreds of world-class wealth elites. These outstanding figures have exerted great influence on the United States and the world, and continue to exert far-reaching influence.
The book Harvard Family Instructions is a model of family education. She educates and inspires people through various short stories. It is a book that benefits parents a lot, and it is also a book that inspires children. It is a vivid and fascinating story from beginning to end, and every time you read a story, you will have a feeling.
This is a book that will benefit us for life. It teaches us some truths about how to be a man:
First of all, it is important to have a humble and grateful heart, because humble people will give in to each other.
The little girl in A Little Bread never competes with others for bread. She always waits for others to finish eating before picking up the smallest piece of bread left in the basket, and never forgets to kiss the baker's hand to show her gratitude. In the eyes of some people now, this little girl is too stupid to argue about anything. Isn't it a disadvantage? In fact, those who really suffer are those who like competition. They won small profits in front of them, but exposed their bad morals in broad daylight, which is greatly unfavorable to their life development. Those who strive for strength and competitiveness will strive for heaven; God will give in to those who are humble. The baker said well, "I will tell you a truth, humble man, and God will give you happiness." May you always keep a quiet and grateful heart. "
Secondly, being honest and trustworthy will win everyone's respect and trust.
The father who demolished the pavilion twice, in order to fulfill his promise to his son, demolished the pavilion twice, although he was not rich. Dismantling the pavilion twice is not only to satisfy a child's wish, but also to satisfy an adult's moral requirements for self-improvement. In social life, breaking promises will increase the cost of communication and make many simple things difficult or even impossible. Therefore, if a person wants to get social respect and support, he must have good integrity and morality.
Third, a person should have a dream, but also a down-to-earth and persistent effort.
After tripping over a stone, the village postman Shivall had an idea: "How nice it would be to build a castle with these beautiful stones!" " In order to realize this dream, he didn't live a leisurely day for the next twenty years. During the day, he is a postman and a coolie who carries stones. At night, he is an architect. He built his castle according to his wild imagination. Finally, Sivalle spent more than 20 years and made unremitting efforts to build his own dream castle. Now, this castle has become a famous scenic spot in France, and its name is "the ideal palace of the postman Shivalier". When a stone has a dream, it is no longer a stone and no longer lies in the soil. Therefore, if there is a dream, there will be a miracle!
This book is also full of classic language, such as: it is feasible and smart to change yourself. When you try to change others, you will look silly and ask for it; Praise others will make you happier, and praise others will make you focus on positive things. Whenever you focus on positive things, your life will be full of hope; Weak things are laughed at when they first come out, but as long as they keep accumulating strength, they will gradually become stronger. The process from weak to strong may be subtle. It must be very strong when you can see it.
Short story in the book: Where is the groundhog? Change the color of the vase? Happy seeds? You are happier than anyone? A beggar's philosophy of life? Let the rabbit get away? Let me understand a lot of truth, and my heart was strongly shocked. For example, from "You are happier than anyone else", I understand that our work cannot be aimed at making money. If we can do this, we will feel very happy and love our work more. "Let the rabbit run" I learned that everyone will have some special skills. If children are allowed to develop in their own specialties, they will develop well?
Reading a good book is really a pleasure, and Harvard family precepts are such a good book. I was baptized by the spirit in the process of reading! It makes me feel the joy of reading, and then I get the sublimation of my mind and the shock of my mind. After reading this book, I have an impulse and an idea: I will try to change my way according to the book and let myself grow up first. At the same time, I will use the truth in the book to educate my children and my students, so that under my guidance, they can gain knowledge and the truth of being a man, and become a new century talent with noble morality, ideals, ambitions, responsibility, creativity and action. Although I won't do it soon, I will continue to work hard!
Reflection on Harvard Family Instructions (3)
During the summer vacation, I read Harvard Family Instructions? A teaching material for Harvard doctors. "Harvard University ranks first among world-class universities. At Harvard, there are already seven presidents, 43 Nobel Prize winners and hundreds of world wealth elites. But what does Harvard rely on to cultivate so many talents? " After reading this book, I have some thoughts.
I'm waiting for the early start of school in the middle of my study, so I can share the stories in this book with my students as soon as possible, especially the articles such as The Distance of Gold, How High Can Your Heart Jump, Always Sitting in the Front Row, When You Smile, etc. After reading it, I felt a lot. I think that the development of a student can not only depend on the education of parents and teachers, but also on his personal growth, which is the result of the coordinated development of physiology and psychology. If a child's behavior is not so satisfactory at this stage, there are many reasons. As an educator, first of all, you should not be too impatient, and secondly, there is no need to blame yourself. What a child becomes is not entirely someone's responsibility. Instead of seizing every minute to "educate" him, it is better to give him time and opportunity to grow up and wait for him to grow up. Therefore, to maintain a good educational mentality, we can better accompany our children to grow up and discover every change in the process of their growth.
After a long time, the teacher will find a phenomenon. We may have spent a lot of energy on a student, but the result is not satisfactory. His change is completely out of proportion to our efforts, and he is probably as ignorant as before. This often makes us feel badly hit, complain about the sky, and even feel that we don't want to care about him anymore. But think about it, we often talk about taking students as the foundation and respecting children's differences. In fact, some children have stood at a higher level since they entered school, some children will have great changes after three years, and some children will grow relatively slowly, but the slowness is not constant, not to mention worse. Education cannot be achieved overnight. Learn to appreciate the growth of children, observe and enjoy the new developments and changes that occur every week and every month, even if it is a small change. You don't have to always think about "how to make him change more", but you should fully appreciate the fun of growing up at each stage with your child. As an old violin says, "Nothing in time is useless. It's useless because we haven't found his use yet. Because of this, we missed a lot of treasures. People are also artifacts and must be polished by themselves? " . As teachers, we should help children realize their own beauty and find ways to "polish" themselves.
Reflection on Harvard Family Instructions (4)
Harvard University ranks first in the world. It has trained 7 presidents and 34 Nobel Prize winners. Family Instructions of Harvard is a doctor of Harvard? William? Edited by Baynard and read many times, it is a literary work that I can't put down.
Family Instructions of Harvard is a series of short stories. At the end of each story, I summed up a philosophy of life. After reading the complete book, every story in the book inspires me, and every truth is life motto and golden advice. One of the stories that touched me the most was the mentality in Harvard Family Instructions II. The story of realizing the future realm? "Happy Painter" tells the story of a painter who is about to go blind and knows a painter with a disabled arm because of redecorating. The painter lives happily because of his good attitude. Through this story, William? Baynard told us that the biggest disaster in life is the disaster of thought. Nothing can make you cry if you are strong-willed. If fate takes away one hand from you, you can polish your life with the other. If fate prevents you from seeing others smile, smile yourself!
Family Instructions of Harvard is an inspirational book, which teaches us to pay attention to character, have dreams, expect success, think rationally, be grateful to our loved ones and be full of courage? If you have the chance, please read "Harvard Family Instructions", and you will gain a lot of things that you can't learn in textbooks.
Reflection on Harvard Family Instructions (5)
There are many short stories in Harvard Family Instructions, which contain many principles of being a man, just like pearls strung a necklace of life. One of the short stories benefited me a lot? If you really want to fly.
More than a hundred years ago, a poor shepherd took two sons to herd sheep for others. At this time, a flock of geese flew in the sky, and the two children were envious. They really want to fly like geese. The shepherd told the two children that they could fly if they wanted. The two children tried, but neither could fly. They looked at their father suspiciously. Father tried, but he did not fly. But the shepherd told the two children that they couldn't fly because they were old. You are still young, as long as you keep working hard, you can fly.
The two sons firmly remember their father's words and have been making unremitting efforts. Finally, they finally flew, because they invented the plane, which is the famous Wright brothers.
This story tells me that faith is a torch, which can ignite a person's passion and potential and let him fly to the sky of dreams.
If you have an ideal, you must make unremitting efforts. Nothing for nothing. It is impossible to daydream all day. You should finish it step by step, bit by bit. Sometimes, we also say, "I think?" But sometimes, we "say" instead of "think". If you really want to "think", you must put it into action, sweat, and pay back. As long as you work hard, the result will be good.
Reflection on Harvard Family Instructions (6)
Family Instructions of Harvard is a book I read in my summer vacation, and it is also my favorite book. I thought there was a lot of truth in this book, but when I really saw the back of the book, I didn't expect there were many stories in the book, and these stories were not only interesting, but also naturally understood some truth after reading them.
Everyone has heard of Harvard University and wants to be admitted to it. In the past 300 years, Harvard University has trained 8 American presidents, 40 Nobel Prize winners, 32 Pulitzer Prize winners and hundreds of world-class wealth elites.
This book brings together the top educational ideas and the essence of Harvard University in the past 300 years. We can read, understand and feel the philosophy of life, excellent quality, outstanding skills and human weakness from the book. This book has five chapters, each chapter has fifteen chapters, and each chapter has five or six short stories. Every short story has a title, famous sayings, reasons, practices and explanations.
Among them, a famous saying in the book made me remember it very deeply. That famous saying is: a person who doesn't laugh is like a carriage without springs. Without passing through a piece of gravel, it will bump and shake, which is unpleasant. ? Henry. Ward? Beecher means: A positive attitude allows you to concentrate all your mental energy on something. When you go all out with a positive attitude, no matter what the result is, you are a winner. Thinking positive things helps to change your mind.