1, parents should understand and treat it correctly, which requires parents to change their concepts and confirm the changes in parent-child relationship.
2. Treat each other as friends and respect their autonomy. In getting along with them, we should establish friendly relations with them, exchange ideas, confide in our hearts, communicate well, and help and guide them with friendship.
3. Guide them to correctly accept themselves and their changes: let them correctly realize that this period is an inevitable process in individual development, treat it with a positive attitude, set an example and set an example, organize various independent activities, give play to their independence, and establish a sense of responsibility, including family/collective and social responsibility.
Four methods of children education in rebellious period;
1, stay calm
The rebellious period of children is also the depressed period of parents. As the saying goes, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers. At this time, children are not afraid of the majesty of their parents. I'm afraid it's not that easy to suppress children with the authority of parents.
When a child loses his temper and yells at his parents, the first thing parents should do is to keep calm and must restrain their emotions. Because at this moment, no matter what parents say, children will not listen. Therefore, calmness is the best attitude.
2. Communication after emotional stability
Of course, if parents are calm in front of their children, they will only be regarded as paper tigers by their children. And our real purpose is to communicate and educate children after their emotions have calmed down. At this time, parents should put a low profile, suppress their dissatisfaction, and reason with their children calmly.
3. Empathy education
After communicating with children, the next thing parents should do is to educate their children about empathy. Let yourself stand in the child's perspective and understand the child's psychological demands. Similarly, we should also guide children to think from the perspective of their parents and realize their mistakes.
4. Help children find ways to decompress.
Sometimes, a child's bad temper comes from his own pressure. For example, the pressure of children's schoolwork at school, the pressure of unhappy classmates and the pressure of extracurricular interest classes. These pressures are concentrated on one child, and the child must have some dissatisfaction to vent. At this time, parents can help their children find ways to relieve stress. For example, parents can take their children out to play, take them to eat a big meal, or go to the movies with them. The pressure on the child has been released, and naturally there is not so much resentment.
I hope parents can treat the rebellious period correctly, put their minds right, treat their children in the rebellious period in the right way, and help them get through the rebellious period smoothly and move towards a better tomorrow.