Children's filial piety to their parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which has always been praised by people. But this virtue is increasingly lacking in the only child in today's society, so parents are asking their children what to do if they are not filial. 1. Parents should understand their children's age characteristics and set a good example for their children. Children are in a self-centered development stage, and it is inevitable that they will show "stingy" and "overbearing" phenomena. Parents should understand the age characteristics of young children, allow them to show this kind of behavior that violates filial piety, and avoid strong rebellious psychology of young children. Children's emotions are combined with cognition, and their emotions are influenced by knowledge and experience. Therefore, parents should enrich their children's knowledge of filial piety and tell them more loving stories such as Kong Rong and Li Rang. And let children analyze why people praise Kong Rong, let children know that sharing and humility are good qualities, and encourage them to learn from Kong Rong with their own practical actions. Parents should set an example and teach by example. Usually, parents should set an example for their children in words and deeds, such as establishing an orderly family relationship at home. We should respect and care for the elderly. When we have delicious food, we should take the initiative to give it to the elderly first. When the old people are sick, we should serve them patiently, cooking, rubbing their backs and washing clothes for them. Parents' words and deeds will deeply touch children's innocent hearts, plant a seed of love in their young hearts, and children's awareness of caring for their parents and respecting their elders will gradually form. 2. Seize the opportunity to carry out "random education" and "filial piety education" for children, starting from the little things that happen around them, so that children can learn filial piety imperceptibly in every word and deed in daily life. As parents, we should be good at observing children, seize the opportunity of education and conduct immediate education. For example, when delicious food is left to children and parents just watch, parents should tell their true thoughts and let their children know their love; When a mother cooks and washes clothes for her children, let them see the sweat on her head and calluses on her hands. In short, let children see the true love of their parents, thus guiding children to learn to love. 3. Empathy education-let children truly understand and experience the sufferings and joys of their parents. Empathy refers to the ability of individuals to imagine themselves in other people's situations and understand their feelings, desires, thoughts and actions, that is, the ability to put themselves in others' shoes. We can buy some favorite animals for our children, let them keep them by themselves, such as goldfish, rabbits and other animals that are easy to manage, let them be the "parents" of these animals, and take care of them at all times, so that children can initially understand the hardships of being parents. Parents should always communicate with their children and give them opportunities to honor their elders. Parents should always talk to their children like friends and talk from the heart. Mothers can tell their children about the hardships of pregnancy in October and raise their parents' pains and joys in the process of growing up; For example, when he was young, every time he cried, his mother was so anxious and worried that she always tried to stop him from crying. Besides, my mother always stays up late at night for fear that he will be hungry and thirsty. Tell your children what you need. Parents can tell their children what they need. For example, when a mother comes home from work, she can say to her child, "Honey, mom is very tired from work. Can you pour her some water? " Or "dear, mom and dad work very hard, and they have to wash clothes, cook and tidy the room when they get home." If you can do something for mom and dad, that would be great. " There is delicious food at home, and the family can sit together and let the children distribute it. Parents must not refuse, but happily accept sharing and sincerely praise their children. For example, "Thank you, baby!" Or "Baby, you have worked hard!" In short, we should always let children do what they can and give them more opportunities to honor their parents.