Professor Zhu Yongxin also mentioned in his book Dream of New Education: "Reading is a very important way for children to purify their souls and sublimate their personality." Let children "read more, love reading, learn to read, and read good books." It has become the consensus of every parent.
Our family is a happy family with rich books and advocates happy reading. Our reading slogan is "understand life in reading, learn to think in reading, and grow up happily in reading." Since the parent-child reading activity, our parents have carefully studied the required books recommended by the school, and also took time out to study many books on family education. In parent-child reading, we constantly sum up our reading experience and form some reading methods suitable for our families.
One is fixed reading time. We use 8: 30 pm to 9: 00 pm as a fixed time for parent-child reading. During this time, the children have finished their homework and previewed their homework, the parents have finished their chores at home, turned off the TV and computer, and the family strolled in the book together and enjoyed reading.
The second is to choose reading posture. We adopted the "snuggling" parent-child mode, in a comfortable bed or sofa, let the children snuggle up to their parents, and parents hold their children with their hands, creating a reading atmosphere with strong affection.
Third, pay attention to the intonation of reading aloud. When reading to children, we should avoid a peaceful tone, pay attention to reading with expression and slow down the reading pace.
The fourth is to prepare reading guidance. According to children's reading level, the book is divided into three different areas: intensive reading, selective reading and skimming, focusing on making children understand the essence of the book. Because the reading time is not long, we should pay attention to the arrangement, so we might as well find a place to stop while reading. Arouse children's appetite and increase their interest in reading. "Take Wan Li Road and read thousands of books." Reading is a dialogue with the wise, and reading is a spiritual journey. We are slowly changing from passive reading to active reading in parent-child reading, and parent-child reading is becoming a good habit in our family. In the future, we will continue to improve ways and means to further stimulate children's enthusiasm for reading, seeking knowledge and creating, so that children can be friends with books and grow up healthily and happily in reading.
In the process of reading, you should patiently answer all kinds of questions raised by your child, or ask him some questions instead of rushing to answer them, so as to inspire him to think positively and guide him to express his ideas. You should allow your child to have different opinions, even if his ideas are superficial and biased, don't deny them rudely and simply. There are many things that have no absolute answers. You can explain patiently, discuss enthusiastically, convince each other with your own views, and stimulate children's thinking ability to develop in depth. If you really can't stand each other, you can look up information and read books together to find the best answer, which will make him convinced and natural. At this time, parents also increased the knowledge that they had not paid attention to or were not interested in before, and achieved the goal of accumulating and growing together with their children.
Reading together has another great advantage. Parents and children experience the joys and sorrows brought by books together. The same mood brings parents and children closer together, and there is no gap between them. They are as close as friends and talk about everything. They can feel their children's psychological and ideological changes from a distance, so as to adjust their ways and methods in time and create a better learning environment and family environment for their children. Starting from myself, after school, parents will take a book and read it quietly, creating a reading atmosphere for their children and letting them know that reading is a good habit. Almost every night, we spend half an hour with our children and tell them carefully and patiently.
Cultivating children's good reading habits is not a day's work, it is not only a test for children, but also a test for us as parents. We should urge children to read an article every day, so that children can consciously remember good sentences and words in the article. Parents should try to answer their children's questions correctly when they encounter problems in reading. When they encounter unanswered questions, they should read other books, treat children's problems correctly, help children improve their thinking space, read them repeatedly, and deeply understand the meaning of the words they first came into contact with, so that their memories will be more profound.
"Half an acre of square pond is open, and the sky is full of clouds. Ask where the canal is so clear because there is a source of living water. " Let's drink this "source of living water", climb the ladder of human progress, and become a rich man of knowledge and a giant of spirit! Read happily with children.
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