I remember when I was a child, I hid at home in the summer vacation and read my dad's novels locked in the cupboard, or martial arts novels ... I finished bride with white hair, Seven Swords Down the Tianshan Mountains, Jade Bow Edge in the Sea of Clouds, all of which were Liang Yusheng's novels, and, by the way, The Story of the Golden Platform. These are the books in the cupboard. . So I haven't read the original works of Gu Long and Jin Yong.
So that the summer vacation is over half, and I haven't started my homework yet, so I have to rush there in the dark one week before school starts. It's really not like the summer life of the first-ranked schoolmaster in primary school for six years, so it's normal for junior high school to become scum. How can you relax your studies and spend the 60-day summer vacation so easily in such a foreign language school where top students gather in the city? If you are not eliminated, who will be eliminated?
In life, there are never winter and summer vacations.
Human nature, of course, is to pursue comfort and avoid pain. But choosing where to spend your time determines the gap between people.
As the saying goes: "I am afraid of classmates, but I am even more afraid of their summer vacation!"
There is a very interesting phenomenon about summer vacation, which is called "summer vacation retrogression".
This phenomenon comes from a two-year study of 3000 students (from grade/kloc-0 to grade 4) conducted by Johns Hopkins University in Atlanta, USA.
Research shows that:
Some people wander around in the summer vacation, wasting their time, fascinated by the cheap happiness in front of them, losing their poetry and distance;
Some people are still gritting their teeth and constantly enriching themselves, and finally achieve the goal of overtaking.
People who are better than you work harder and endure hardships than you. Behind all the Excellence is the ascetic self-discipline you can't imagine.
Time is the fairest. After a holiday, relaxed children will get worse and worse, and children who insist on self-discipline will get stronger and stronger.
A year later, five years later, ten years later, they lived a completely different life.
My experience at school should prove this conclusion. At that time, I really didn't understand what "a completely different life" meant, and I couldn't predict what impact "lack of self-discipline" would have on my later life. Neither do my parents.
At present, my middle school classmates are diplomats of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, director of the Beijing Foreign Studies Department, president of Huawei Japan and South Korea, founder of one-stop study abroad experts in Du Fei, secretary general of the Hubei Chamber of Commerce in Japan, and elites active in all walks of life.
Of course, it is not just one or two one-sided factors that make me "mediocre". At the beginning, if I had a little wisdom to see through the fog, a noble person who could enlighten me and an elder who helped me, maybe my life would be completely different.
Parents' eyes are really important.
Now I suffer from not being able to take care of my baby with all my energy, but I dare not slack off in my baby's education.
Today's children have more things to disturb them than when we were young. Mobile phones and IPAD can provide all kinds of video entertainment and game interference.
Being a parent is hard,
But I don't want my children to make the same mistake again.
"Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren's blessings" must have done their best to be qualified to say.
At least, let's form good habits,
Let children benefit for a lifetime.
There are no winter and summer vacations in life. It's not that success is not fast enough, but that you are not hard enough on yourself.
Walking on earth, what are the shortcuts?
The so-called success and miracle, traced back to the source, are only down-to-earth efforts.
If you can't eat the bitterness of reading, you will definitely eat the bitterness of life.
The laziness you once stole from your study will be returned to you in another way in the future.
Son, this is the story of your mother and me.
There will be some regrets when reflecting on life, but it is never too late to live. Life doesn't have to be at the top of the world, but you always have to work hard to know how far you can go.
Today is the first 18 day of the shift camp on 100 (18/ 100).
Where is the heart, there is time.
Write! That's right.