As parents, they always yell at their children? What does it take to communicate with children? Parents should control their emotions according to the exploration of psychologists, and find that we treat the same thing, and different types of tone will get different types of conclusions. Just like when parents criticize their children, if parents can communicate calmly with their children in a low voice, the children are willing to accept it, because a lower voice can release the pressure of children's refusal and rebellion, which is very beneficial to communication. The calm communication of parents is a correct demonstration for children, so that children know that they must shout out when dealing with contradictions.

Pay attention to tone and language when communicating. Many parents get angry immediately when they see their children are not sensible, and their emotions slowly get out of control, but this kind of teaching effect is not good. Therefore, after controlling their emotions, parents should communicate in a low voice and can directly ponder how to use words. They must not say things like "parents who are not sensible will never love you again", and organize their language expressions before communicating with their children. Parents should pay attention to keep quiet when talking to their children, and correctly guide them to follow their own ideas, which will restore their emotions and make them more aware of their problems.

Tell your child clearly what you think and what you want. Sometimes parents try to make their children smart by yelling at them or threatening them. This is actually a sign of parents' laziness. Although the child is likely to be obedient for a while, in fact, the child does not know what he has done wrong or where his parents have to correct himself, so he will still make the same mistake. When parents communicate with their children, they also need to use accurate language to convey their thoughts and needs to their children and express their expectations, so as to achieve the effect of cultural education for their children.

For example, if you take your children to see some exhibitions, they will be nosy and want to rub around. If you just yell at the child, "Don't touch it, I'll hit you if I touch it!" " Children have never thought about it, and sometimes even want to touch it because of rebellious psychology. But if you tell your child that there is a clear rule in the exhibition hall that you can't touch it, there will be punishment for touching it, so that the child can understand the consequences of touching it, understand. Parents should not yell at their children when they are teaching them. This kind of teaching effect will only make adults and children so "injured", so parents should learn to control their emotions and communicate with their children in the right way.