To my mother:

What is given to children is not necessarily the best.

Although things are inconspicuous, children will cherish them very much. Because it is full of "love".

Anne is a lively girl. When she recalls the gifts her poor mother gave her, she is always excited:

"When I entered the sixth grade of primary school, the school stipulated that I should wear leather shoes. At that time, my family was very poor, so my mother spent two weeks doing housework for others and bought me a pair of leather shoes with the money she earned.

On the first day of school, my classmates found that my leather shoes were different from those worn by my classmates, and the toe was very sharp, because it was an old style. I felt very happy when I put on my leather shoes. I was very careful and didn't dare to step on them too hard to avoid damage.

After wearing for two years, the soles of leather shoes have been worn very thin. On rainy days, rain will seep in and socks will get wet, but I still wear them to school. "

The child has a keen sense.

They have a keen sense of what their mother did and left a deep memory.

Coping strategy

As an adult, you may only feel like giving something to others in a few months or years, but children are different. What parents give their children, or give them encouragement, is a lifetime memory.

Especially those rare events that particularly touched him. Send him a gift, and his gratitude to you will be deeply remembered.

Smart parents may be comfortable in their careers and interpersonal relationships, but complain about the difficulties in getting along with their children.

But have you ever asked yourself:

How much energy and time do you spend on children relative to your career?

Compared with the education, training and study you received in your profession (major), how much energy and time did you spend on learning how to get along with children and how to carry out family education?

In fact, it doesn't take much energy and time, sometimes it just needs a small gift and a small surprise.

However, due to the innocence and sensitivity of children, the results and rewards are great.

Entering the 2 1 century, people gradually attach importance to quality.

If the parent-child time is well managed, it can be called quality time.

Dad needs to spend time, a little thought and get along well with his children.

Although father and son can't talk about everything like mother and son, they can find common interests through the arrangement of small gifts, and then talk while doing it. In fact, dad can naturally reveal his interesting side and enhance the understanding and communication between father and son.

In fact, what children value is your concern for him. Only by bathing in an obvious and strong atmosphere of love can children feel happy and grow up really happily.

As a symbol of the soul, there is no better emotional bond than a gift.

Some parents think it's easy to give gifts to their children. The little girl will get the latest Barbie doll. Little boy, just buy a transformer and send it away.

However, when they received the gift, they didn't have that kind of cheering surprise, which showed that the gift was not popular with them.

When giving gifts to children, you should give them what you like, and don't choose gifts according to the habits of adults.

If you give him a complete set of painting supplies, I hope he will become a painter, but the child may not be interested in it. After all, children can't expect to realize their parents' wishes by giving gifts.

In fact, as long as you pay attention, you will easily find their hobbies in children's life, games, painting and reading.

The easiest way is to ask them directly what they like. As long as the child talks about the gift he wants, it must be endless.

Gifts are not just objects, they can express parents' love and are an auxiliary means to educate children and help them grow up.

There are four principles for giving gifts to children.

1. Send care

You can buy sweaters, gloves and other gifts for your child in winter to show that you care about his indifference.

In the new year, your gift to him can be a set of knowledge books, which shows that you are very concerned about his study and growth.

Different gifts will show how much you care about your children.

Rita Hyman is a famous American violinist, and the scene when she received a gift in her childhood is still vivid:

"On Christmas morning, I woke up and found that there was no gift by the bed, and tears poured out. Then he rushed out of the door in a rage without even saying hello to his sleepy mother at his desk.

When I got home at night, I saw a beautiful present on my desk. That's a violin. I was very surprised. I was practicing the violin at that time, which was just my dream gift. In fact, a few weeks before Christmas, my mother has been busy buying me presents. She had the violin bought from distant Switzerland. She stayed up late the night before to pack. It was not finished until the wee hours. Before she got it and put it in front of my bed, she was exhausted and fell asleep at her desk.

My mother smiled and said to me, Rita, you weren't at home when Santa gave you a present. I was moved to tears and threw myself into my mother's arms. I know there is no Santa Claus in this world, only my mother who cares about me. Since then, I have also learned to care about my mother and others. "

Show interest

Interest is the best teacher. Giving gifts according to children's interests will be welcomed. If your child asks you for a special gift, it must be of interest to him. You must not take it lightly.

Sculptor Julianne was full of energy when she was a child, but she was playful and everything she played was anticlimactic.

But a small paddle given by her father aroused her great interest. She began to use this board as a toy and devoted herself to it. Family members often receive pots, mats and sculptures made of her own paddles. Her interest later brought her success in her career.

Send inspiration

Children will encounter a lot of confusion when they grow up. They need to know the structure and context of some things, and it is necessary to give inspiration. Therefore, gifts for children should take into account the ingredients that inspire wisdom.

Perhaps, your gift may make your child work miracles and put him on the road to success.

A couple in California, their two children just graduated. Their parents gave them an inspiring gift: two train tickets to continental Europe and put them on the train.

After many years, both children have a successful career. The father recalled afterwards that the children had a very unusual experience along the way, but they learned the ability to deal with emergencies and live independently, which was beneficial to their later growth.

Send knowledge

Intellectual talent can broaden children's horizons, increase their knowledge, and make them interested in learning and curious about things from an early age.

Intellectual toys, learning machines, repeater, books, knowledge audio-visual products are all good gifts for children.

Many people still remember the gifts given by their parents when they were young, because it is the ornament of life and has unusual significance.

Dear parents, take some time to choose some unique gifts for your children, maybe that will change their lives!

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