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Children are always not well educated. Why?
? In fact, as early as when the child was over 2 years old, he began to have his own thoughts. He can't control his emotions, and sometimes he gets angry suddenly, which makes you feel out of control. This is the first troublesome rebellious period in life. At this time, if you indulge your child, it will cause wayward and rebellious psychology; Parents are too strict with their children, and it is difficult for them to do so. They are prone to rebellious psychology and behavior, and over time, they become willful. In addition, the most common mistake parents make in family education in real life is that they don't care about their children's feelings and self-esteem, and they don't give their children face in front of outsiders, which is also easy to cause their rebellious psychology. As we all know, being too strict or disrespecting children can also lead to rebellious consequences.

? When children reach the age of 13- 16, they are in the rebellious period of youth, which is a psychological "transition period" in the growth of teenagers. Their sense of independence and self-awareness is increasing day by day, and they are eager to get rid of the guardianship of adults. They object to adults treating themselves as "children" and pretending to be adults. In order to show that they are "different", they tend to be critical of everything.

It is precisely because they feel or worry that the outside world ignores their independent existence that they have a rebellious mentality, thus using various means and methods to establish the equal status of "self" and the outside world. Although rebellious psychology is not unhealthy psychology, it is abnormal psychology when it reacts strongly. Although rebellious psychology is not unhealthy psychology, it is abnormal psychology when it reacts strongly.

Teenagers' rebellious behavior has the following common characteristics:

1, age characteristics-14 years old is the peak age of adolescent rebellious behavior.

2. Gender characteristics-There are more boys than girls among students with rebellious character.

3. Educational characteristics-Students with poor academic performance are more rebellious than children with good academic performance.

4, the characteristics of motivation-mainly in the fierce confrontation between parents and children, teachers and children.

5. Behavioral characteristics-Most rebellious teenagers don't care about the consequences of their actions and will do some extreme things. They may even wander and beg, gamble and engage in illegal and criminal activities in Internet cafes for a long time.