"If someone hits you, you also hit him. If you can't beat him, you will bite. " "We would rather lose money than suffer." This is what many parents often say when educating their children. In order to correct this wrong view of parents, experts suggest that kindness education for children should not be ignored. In particular, mothers of children should use love to educate their children to "take good advice" and let them cultivate virtues such as fraternity, sympathy and tolerance from an early age.

In life, many parents often give their children some special education, such as "how to cheat in society" and "how to intrigue". Perhaps the original intention of parents is not wrong, that is, to warn children to learn to protect themselves and be careful. However, the scale of this kind of education is difficult to grasp. Imagine what kind of seeds we will plant in our children's hearts if parents are biased or even wrong in guiding their children.

Perhaps in the eyes of parents, "don't suffer from childhood" can protect yourself better. The concept of "people are good at being bullied" makes parents ignore the goodwill education for their children. However, experts say that children can't protect themselves well without kindness. Therefore, as parents, we must never give up the goodwill education for our children.

Experts say: the content of a good education includes four aspects:

1, protecting the natural environment and animals; 2. sympathize with and help the weak, and create opportunities for children to help those in need; 3. Be tolerant of others; 4, spurn violence, do not provide children with violent toys, stay away from violent scenes, and do not use violence when dealing with problems.

The core part is family education. Generally, there are four kinds of love with different relationships and different natures in a family. Only by living in such a sound environment of love can children enjoy care and cultivate a kind heart.

Love for children

Children's love for their parents is a response to their love. Children's self-esteem, self-love, filial piety, responsibility and other qualities are obtained from their parents' daily performance. Therefore, parents should give their children the right love and set a correct example.

Companion love

Seeing that parents and other elders love their companions, children will learn to love their friends. At present, most families in China have only one child, and they lack the opportunity to practice the love of brother and sister. At this stage, the study of love can only be made up by kindergarten, school or community environment. Parents should create more opportunities for their children to be with their peers. This is an education in itself, from which children will learn to understand, share, unite and help.

Love between husband and wife

A harmonious and happy relationship between husband and wife is also an education for children. Children can learn to understand, accept, appreciate, be sincere and affirm from the mutual care and care of husband and wife. Another concept that couples love to pass on to their children is loyalty. This is also the key to cultivating children's kindness.

Parental love

When children receive the education of the above three kinds of love, they will become a kind and healthy person. When they become parents, they can pass on the right love and kind heart to the next generation. So this kind of education is endless.