Teachers should not only understand and trust students in the process of education and teaching. At the same time, teachers should win the understanding and trust of students and parents in education and teaching. Trust is the expression of emotional communication between teachers and students and the foundation of education. Therefore, teachers should understand and trust their students, and make efforts in exchange for the understanding and trust of students and their parents, which plays a great role in cultivating students' self-esteem and enhancing their sense of responsibility for their actions. This kind of trust and understanding is based on a deep understanding of students' inner world. Our trust in students is not blind. We should go deep into students, understand their ideological status, study status and family status, be good at discovering their talents and master everyone's personality and temper. You should be able to describe the advantages and disadvantages of your students in a few sentences. Only by finding the pulse of students' thoughts, so as to prescribe the right medicine, can we improve the' curative effect'.
Talk to students on an equal footing, be their friends, help them get out of their psychological misunderstanding and create some relaxation opportunities for students; In heart-to-heart, we should appear in front of students as friends as much as possible, establish a new teacher-student relationship with students, communicate with students on an equal footing, and achieve emotional communication and verbal compatibility. At this time, the teacher's words are most easily accepted by students, which naturally produces good educational effects. When I talk with students, I often don't pay attention to specific occasions, but I can do it anywhere at will, and I don't pay attention to specific time. This will make students feel natural, listen to the teacher, and students will be unprepared for the teacher. At this time, the conversation was harmonious, pleasant and relaxed.
Teachers and students should build a bridge of trust, always maintain a cheerful, lively and harmonious atmosphere, respect each other, understand trust, unite and cooperate, and the content of education can be successfully transmitted in this atmosphere. If the emotional distance between teachers and students is far and the psychological distance is large, students will have a kind of avoidance psychology of staying away from teachers. Then, this teacher is not easy to be accepted by students, and the content of his education is even more difficult to be accepted. Every child needs understanding and care. In the future, I want to continue this conversation.
Being friends with students, being able to listen to their joys and sorrows and feeling that they are needed by students is really a kind of happiness. In class, I talk to students as a friend, and shorten the distance between teachers and students with kind eyes, kind attitude and warm praise. Every class is in a good mood, giving all students sincere words, trusting eyes and kind smiles, and winning students' trust in me with true love, thus creating a relaxed, harmonious and mutually respectful teaching atmosphere. During recess or after school, I often have activities with students or talk with them in the corridor. This way of talking has narrowed the distance between me and the students, avoided the psychological pressure caused by the office to the students, shared their happiness, felt their pain, understood their troubles, solved their problems, and there were no disputes and fights in the class. I not only accumulated a lot of valuable educational experience, but also grew up happily with the students. It is my trust in children that makes them grow up healthily, and it is my trust in children that makes me happy to work. To achieve psychological compatibility between teachers and students, we must build a solid bridge with love and trust. Because only love is the greatest authority and the most powerful and natural connection point between teachers and students. Let love and trust become the golden key to the hearts of teachers and students.
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