With the emergence of "tiger mom and cat dad" families, the burden of educating children naturally falls on women. For the education of children, the couple hold their own opinions and have many contradictions. Many contradictions in this TV series also exist in real life. What kind of disadvantages will such education bring to children?

1, the educational method of stick education usually appears on parents with relatively weak cultural foundation. Just like Bi's father, such people usually think that punishment by force is the best way of education, and "a dutiful son is born under the stick". As we all know, often beating and scolding children will hurt their self-confidence and enthusiasm for learning. Stick education may also affect children's interpersonal communication. Parents' long-term suppression of their children will make them timid, afraid to approach others and dare not show themselves in front of others.

2, doting on this kind of education is common in children's elders, because the thinking is relatively backward, not keeping up with the pace of society, when educating children, they often choose the education method of loving. Parents' doting on their children will make them headstrong, headstrong and disobedient to their parents' discipline. It will also make children like to be self-centered in their interactions with others, regardless of the feelings of others.

3. Inconsistent educational methods. The disunity of educational methods between parents is a very serious problem. When educating children, parents should unite and choose the most suitable education method for their children. The contradiction between parents should be solved privately, and don't quarrel in front of the children, so as not to bring bad influence to the children. Parents want their children to grow up better, so a good family atmosphere is essential. A harmonious and happy family atmosphere will have a good influence on children.

Different from strict education, strict education is often overdone. Parents often demand too much from their children and control too much. This kind of education often leads to children's excessive pressure and easily leads to children's rebellious psychology. Besides, parents are too strict with their children, and they can easily become silent and shut themselves off. Excessive stress may also induce mental illness in children.

Educating children is a protracted war. Parents should have enough patience to create a good living and learning atmosphere for their children. I hope every parent can find a set of educational ideas suitable for their children and establish a benign parent-child relationship with their children!