The smaller the promise, the more you should keep it.

"I will lend you that book" and "Let's have dinner next time". All these blurted out words are small agreements. Keeping them will make the other person feel "ah, he remembers" and "that's not a polite word", leaving a good impression of sincerity and trustworthiness.

Don't touch other people's things casually

It's really embarrassing to treat yourself as an outsider and use other people's things casually. Don't tamper with other people's things and respect their privacy. Before you take something from others, you must get their consent.

As little as possible.

Try to do your own thing well, don't disturb others, take the initiative to thank others for disturbing them, and don't force others to do it.

If you are kind, you will accept it calmly, and if you have concerns, you will simply refuse.

For example, when dealing with older people, sometimes the other party will invite them to dinner and always say "no need", which is actually a behavior that makes the other party lose face. It is better to accept goodwill and give each other face.

If you want to get help from others, please learn to give first.

Even if it's just a simple greeting and smiling face, meet each other's emotional needs first. The essence of interpersonal communication is exchange and reciprocity.

Everything is 10 minutes early.

Not only in advance, in case of accidents, but also in advance to sort out the mood and enter the state.

Always be grateful and be specific when expressing gratitude.

For example, if you eat a delicious snack given by others, you should not only say "thank you", but also remember to convey the specific feeling of "this tastes good", which will make the other person feel that your thanks are not polite.

When thanking children, this will also let them know what specific behaviors they have done well, so they will be strengthened.

Don't speak ill of others behind their backs, and don't say right and wrong.

Don't judge others casually, learn to respect others' differences, even where you find it difficult to understand.

Politeness should be everyone's.

Be polite to everyone, whether it's the boss, the elders, the waiter in the restaurant, or the old man picking up garbage on the roadside.

When walking the dog, you have the responsibility to do safety precautions and sanitary treatment.

Remember to hold the leash when walking the dog. Large dogs should wear masks to clean up the pet's excrement.

Try not to influence others in public places.

When watching performances and movies, the mobile phone is automatically set to vibration mode. If you are late, please lower your body and enter, and clean up the garbage after the performance.

Take the children to the movies, and don't let the children's noise affect others' movies. This is really important.

Clean up the dishes after eating.

Whether eating at home or in a restaurant, try to put food scraps on a plate and let others clean them up.

When taking the escalator, consciously lean to the right and make way.

Consciously give up the left passage for those who pass quickly and provide convenience for others.

Pay attention to sitting posture, and don't cross your arms or cross your legs.

I want to say here, please don't shake your legs in public. When you shake the chair attached to the back, it will shake with you and really affect others.

The most basic table manners

Don't make any noise when eating, don't turn over the table, don't turn over the dishes, don't clip all your favorite dishes, and use public chopsticks when you have them. Don't eat anything with strong smell and sundries in public.

Clothing collocation and etiquette

Dressing, neatness and fitness, and matching occasions are more important than fashion. Hands in your pockets, manners are more important than what clothes you wear.

The appearance of clothes will affect a person's spiritual temperament and self-identity. In order to save money, don't let children wear clothes that don't fit.

Find a way to solve frequent attacks, don't just complain and go crazy.

Be calm when you encounter something. Don't worry, ask your elders for advice if you can't solve the problem.

Don't make negative comments about what others like.

No matter how good your taste is, it's yours. It is the minimum social etiquette not to comment on what others like at will.

Put some small things in your bag in case you or others need them in an emergency.

For example: band-AIDS, toilet paper, snacks, garbage bags. A person who can always find a way to solve the embarrassment when others need it in an emergency must be very considerate.

Don't take others' kindness to you for granted.

Whether you are a family member or a friend, you should be grateful to those who are kind to you and care for those who are kind to you in your own way.