1, don't worry that the child can't do well, or be afraid that the child will get into trouble, help; Praise and encourage children more, blame and blame children less, and persuade children to make progress.
2. First of all, parents should understand that no matter whether the child's behavior is naughty or curiosity-driven exploration, rummaging in other people's homes is an ill-bred performance, which must be stopped and cannot be condoned.
3. Treat children's shortcomings correctly; Let children live in hope and learn to respect and love themselves; Let children get used to smiling education gradually; Be reasonable, let the children know what it is and why; There are rewards and punishments; Contact parents and let families cooperate with education.
4. Good family education makes children grow up happily. Make good use of this minute to make your child's life sunny. One minute of contact, one minute of listening, one minute of game, one minute of correction, one minute of encouragement, one minute of praise, one minute of participation, one minute of punishment and one minute of care.
5, regardless of children, it depends on virtue. Understand his character, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Not charming, not drowning, not hitting people, not swearing. Encourage more, affirm more, criticize less, and don't use material temptation.
6. To educate children, we must first understand their psychological characteristics, hobbies and behaviors. Please bend down and have a sincere and equal dialogue with your child. Only by understanding children and becoming their friends is the first step to the success of education.
7. Self-reliance training starts with children. Never always revolve around children. Let the children exercise. Teach children to use tools. Parents teach their children to know and use various tools and appliances from an early age. Teach children to adapt to the environment. Conduct self-protection training.
8. Education is a science with its own laws. Necessary criticism contributes to the healthy growth of children and is the propeller and catalyst for their success. In practice, the application of appreciation education must be moderate. While educating children, it may be more useful to have clear rewards and punishments.
9. Tell your child that you are not only a father, but also a friend, and a friend is a spiritual exchange.
10, respect children's ideas and be a good worker; Understand children's behavior and be a good partner; Take good care of your child's body and mind and take good care of it. Put down your body and grow up with your children.
1 1, to explore the potential of children, we must find children with loving eyes; Mobilize children with the encouragement of love; Reject children on the grounds of love; Punish children with the responsibility of love; Temper children with the will of love; Reward children with the passion of love.
12, don't be too strict with children. In order to avoid children's fear and shyness, they dare not express their views and develop a kind and evil character.
13. Good habits are the capital preserved by children, which will continue to increase in value and people will enjoy its interest all their lives.
14, let the children engage in manual labor with you and experience the hardships and gains of labor.
15, the child's heart is as pure as a blank sheet of paper, easily influenced by truth, goodness and beauty, and easily polluted by falsehood, ugliness and ugliness.
16, the closest way between people is affection.
17, explain to the child that he is already cute and there is no need to show himself.
18, parents should gradually cultivate their children's habit of thinking and solving problems, thus building their confidence.
19, we can't mold children according to our own ideas and expectations, but let them take the road that is conducive to the healthy growth of body and mind and self-development.
20. Encourage children not to rely on adults as much as possible.