Translation:
In the Han Dynasty, there was a man named Huang Xiang in Jiangxia. At that time, he was just nine years old and very sensible. Every hot summer comes, I will build mosquito nets for my parents, make pillows and mats cool, fan out blood-sucking bugs, and let my parents sleep well. As for the cold winter, I personally use my body to warm my parents' quilts and let them sleep warmly. So Huang Xiang's story spread to the capital, known as "A Chinese Odyssey, Jiangxia Huang Xiang"!
2. Wang Xiangzi had a rest, he was evil. Filial piety At the beginning of the funeral, the stepmother Zhu was not kind, so count it. Because I lost my love for my father, I swept the cow every time I did it. Parents are ill and can't take off their clothes. Mother often wants to eat raw fish, and when it is cold and frozen, she will take off her clothes and cut ice for it. The ice suddenly dissolved itself, and the double carp jumped out. Mother thought of yellowbird roast again, and dozens of yellowbirds came to her curtain for her mother. The whole village was amazed and thought it was caused by Xiaogan.
Translation:
Wang Xiangzi is from Linyi. Pure filial piety. His biological mother died when he was very young, and his stepmother Zhu was mean and spoke ill of him many times in front of his father. So he lost his father's love at an early age and was often called to clean the cowshed. His parents are ill, so he can't take care of them day and night. Once her stepmother wanted to eat live fish. It was so cold that the river froze. Wang Xiang took off his clothes and prepared to break the ice to catch fish. The ice broke automatically and two carp jumped out of the water. Wang Xiang took them home (to his mother). Stepmother wanted to eat roasted yellowbird again. Dozens of yellowbirds flew into the tent, so he took them to worship his stepmother. The villagers sighed in surprise, thinking that Wang Xiang's filial piety touched the heavens and the earth.
Both parents have the responsibility to educate their children. Send me to Beijing today, and I am in charge of the teaching of Zhengfang. Women, on the other hand, have many preferences, but they don't know that it is harmful if they don't love in their own way. What is its way? There are about four things under the temptation: one is to quit and start; Second, quit being lazy; Three commandments of luxury; Under the temptation is pride. Observe under temptation and observe four rules: First, study hard; Second, it is right to respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, we should eat carefully. The above eight rules are the golden rules for teaching children. You should remember them with all your heart and always use them to teach your third son. Although there are only sixteen words, it is infinite, so we should carefully understand that the success of the younger generation lies in this. I won't talk about the books one by one, and I'll tell you later.
Translation:
Parents should share the responsibility of educating their children, but now that I live in Beijing, the responsibility of family education falls on you alone. However, most women are partial to children, but they don't know that unprincipled love hurts children. What are the principles of educating children? To put it simply, there are four points under the temptation: first, you are not allowed to get up late; No laziness; Third, not extravagant; Fourth, there is no pride. To obey under temptation, there are four things to be advised: first, study hard; Second, respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, be careful about your diet. The above eight rules are immutable rules for educating children. You should keep them in mind and use them to educate three children at any time. Although there are only sixteen words, it has been completely covered. You should understand carefully that the success of your child's career lies in it. I won't list them one by one. I will tell you later.
2. The full-text translation of the ancient prose Godson:
Mrs. Wei is the mother of the monk's side. She is very strict and stuffy. When Wang Sengbian was in Kancheng, he was the commander-in-chief of three thousand foot soldiers, and he was over forty. When he didn't care at all, the old lady stabbed him with a stick. Therefore, Wang Sengbian has made some achievements.
When lyna was in office, there was a smart and talented bachelor. He was loved by his father and neglected to discipline him. What he said makes sense, and his father widely publicized it on the road and praised it all year round; If something goes wrong with him, his father will cover for him in every way, hoping that he will change it quietly.
As a bachelor, his cruel and arrogant habits are getting worse every day. After all, he was killed by Zhou Wei because of his thoughtlessness. His intestines were removed and his blood was used to smear drums.
Original: "Godson"
In the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Yan Zhitui's "Yan Zhitui Yanshi Family Instructions Part II"
Mrs. Wei, my mother, is very solemn; When Wang was in Cannes, he was a general of three thousand people. He is over forty years old, and he is not satisfied. He is still sighing, so he can be his meritorious service. When Emperor Yuan of Liang had a bachelor's degree, he was intelligent and talented, loved by his father and lost his education. In a word, he is famous all over the world. If you make a mistake in one line, slap the Tibetan ornaments and hope that they will correct themselves. When I got married in 2008, I was suddenly slow, but I didn't choose words, which made Zhou Wei cry.
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Other stories of Godson:
1, Meng Mu moved three times.
Original text:
Zou's mother, no. Its house is near the grave. There are very few Mencius, and wandering is a matter between tombs, so he took the initiative to bury them. Meng Mu said, "This is not where I live." Just go. Leaving the city, its banter is something that Jia people dazzle and sell.
Meng Mu added, "This is not my place." Back to Gong Xue. Its frolicking is to set up a cowpea and let it advance and retreat. Meng Mu said, "You can really live in a house." Seclusion. Meng Zichang, who studied six arts, died in the name of a great scholar. This gentleman says that Meng Mu is good at gradual change.
Translation:
Mencius' mother was called Meng Mu. Mencius lived near the cemetery when he was a child. Mencius learned some things like worship and played games to deal with funerals. His mother said, "This place is not suitable for children to live in." So he moved his family to the market, and Mencius learned some knowledge about business and slaughter. The mother thought again, "This place is still not suitable for children to live in."
Mencius learned the etiquette of bowing forward and backward in the imperial court. Meng Mu said, "This is where children live." Settle here. Mencius learned six arts when he grew up and gained the reputation of a great scholar. This gentleman thinks that all this is the result of Meng Mu's gradual enlightenment.
2, mother-in-law tattoo
When Yue Fei was 15 or 16 years old, Jin people from the north invaded the south, and those in power in the Song Dynasty were corrupt and incompetent, and the country was at a critical juncture. Yue Fei joined the army to fight against Liao. Soon after, due to the loss of his father, he retired and returned to his hometown to observe filial piety.
1 126 years, nomads from the central plains invaded on a large scale, and Yue Fei joined the army again. Before leaving, Mrs Yao called Yue Fei to her side and said, "What are your plans now?"
"Go to the front line to kill the enemy and be loyal to the country!"
Mrs Yao is satisfied with her son's answer. "Serving the country faithfully" is a mother's hope for her son. She decided to tattoo these four words on her son's back and let him remember them forever.
Yue Fei unbuttoned her coat, revealing her thin back and letting her mother take the needle. Mrs. Yao asked, "Son, acupuncture is very painful. Are you afraid? " Yue Fei said, "Mom, a small steel needle is nothing. If you are afraid of needles, how can you go to the front to fight! "
Mrs Yao wrote on Yue Fei's back first, and then embroidered it with embroidery. But there is nothing in the word "country", which symbolizes that China has no leader. After the stabbing, my mother-in-law drew it in vinegar ink. Since then, the word "loyalty to the country" on Yue Fei's back has never faded. Mother's encouragement inspired Yue Fei. After Yue Fei joined the army, he was quickly promoted to Bing Yilang for his bravery in combat.
At this point, Kaifeng in the capital of song dynasty was besieged by 8 Jin Army, and Yue Fei and Zong Ze, deputy marshal, went to the rescue and defeated 8 Jin Army many times. He was appreciated by Zong Ze and praised him for his "wisdom and talent, which ancient generals could not surpass". Later, he became a famous hero against gold and was admired by people of all ages.
3. Translate the original text of Jiang's adopted son and mother in classical Chinese for four years, and send four books and a few words on Mother's Day; The bitter child couldn't write when he was a child, but he carved bamboo branches into silk, broke them, bent them into strokes and combined them into words. Once they know, they will be cleared. It will be correct to teach them to read with bamboo silk tomorrow. When they are six years old, they will start writing books. When their mother teaches them, they can knit, embroider and spin. Put the book on your knees so that the whole servant can read it on his knees. My mother can dictate sentences, read aloud, and babble around at will. If my son is lazy, I will pay less attention to the early summer, and I will cry and say, "If my son doesn't learn, how can I meet your father!" " "It's cold at night. My mother sat on the bed, covering her feet, stripped off her chest and warmed her back, and recited together. Tired of reading, I slept in my mother's arms. Suddenly my mother shook her arm and said, "You can wake up. "The cock crows and lies silent. The aunts said to their mother, "I have a son, so why bother?" Yes: "There are many sons; What can my sister do if the child is unfilial? "At the age of nine, his mother taught him the Book of Rites and the poems of Harmony. In his spare time, he recorded poems written by people in Tang and Song Dynasties and taught them to sing. His mother and all of them are sickly. When he was sick, his mother hugged him, walked in a room and never slept. When he didn't recover, he pointed to the poems between the walls and taught his children to whisper. When mother was ill, all of them sat down as actors. Say and run. ""But how can I relieve my troubles? "As the saying goes, children recite what they have read, and then they can understand. "The voice of the whole recitation is loud and clear, which conflicts with the voice of the medicine tripod. Mother smiled and said, "The illness is getting lighter and lighter. "Because my mother is sick, I have the right to recite books, but the disease can be cured. Pay attention to four books: The Analects of Confucius, Mencius, University and The Doctrine of the Mean. Bi: All, all. Chen: Let go. Left and right: both sides. Ren: Whatever. Early summer: ancient school corporal punishment tools. Xia (jiá) is called "Jia Mu", that is, the beginning of wood and wood is carefully selected. When I was four years old, my mother taught me a few words about the Four Books and Five Classics every day. Take it apart. Teach me ten words every day. The next day, let me spell the words I knew the day before with bamboo silk until there is nothing wrong. When I was six years old, my mother taught me to write with a pen. My grandfather's family has never been rich, and there have been famines for several years, and the harvest is not good, and life is particularly embarrassing. At that time, my little servant and I were both made of clothes, shoes and hats by my mother. My mother is good at textile embroidery. Tell the young servant to take it to the market, and people are always rushing to buy it. So my little servant and I always dress neatly, neither worn nor rotten. I remember when my mother taught me, all the embroidery and textile tools were placed beside me. She put the book on her knee and let me sit on a small stool under her knee to read it. My mother taught me to read sentence by sentence when operating in her hand. The sound of reading. In the middle of the night, it was very cold. My mother sat on the bed, pulled the quilt over her feet, unbuttoned her clothes, warmed my back with her chest and accompanied me to read. I was tired and fell asleep in my mother's arms. After a while, my mother shook me and said, "wake up!" " "I opened my eyes and saw tears on my mother's face. I started crying, too. Have a rest and ask me to read. Didn't sleep with me until the first cock crow. When I was menstruating, I once said to my mother, "Sister, you only have one son, so why bother!" She replied, "It's easy to have more sons. Only one son. If I don't make progress in the future, who can I rely on! " When I was nine years old, my mother taught me to learn The Book of Rites, Zhouyi and Shi Mao, and I was able to recite them. Whenever she has time, she copies the poems of Tang and Song poets and teaches me to recite ancient poems. My mother and I are both weak and sick. Whenever I am sick, my mother will hold me around the room without sleeping. When I was a little better, she pointed to the poems posted on the wall and taught me to recite them in a low voice as a game. When my mother is ill, I always sit on her pillow. My mother looked at me and often didn't say a word. I was very sad. I like her, too. Once I asked her, "Mom, aren't you happy?" She said, "Yes, I'm not happy." "Then how can I make my mother happy?" She said, "I'm glad you can give me the back of the book." So I recited it, and the sound of the book was mixed with the boiling sound of the medicine pot. My mother smiled and said, "Look, I'm cured!" " From then on, when my mother was ill, I took a book to read by her bed, so that she would get better.
4. Yang Shanshe version 1: The original Chu has Yang, who is good at shooting; Those who go to Liuye take a hundred steps. Both sides agreed. A man said, "If you shoot well, you can be taught to shoot." If you raise a foundation, you say, "Everyone is nice, but my son says you can teach shooting. Why don't you shoot for me? " The guest said, "I can't teach my son to bend left and right." A willow shooter always hits the target, but he doesn't rest. He is exhausted. His bow and arrow missed the target, and all previous efforts were in vain. " Warring States Policy and Western Zhou Policy There was a man named Yang in Chu who was very good at archery. He shot the willow leaves 100 step, always hitting the leaves. I can't teach you how to straighten your left arm and bend your right arm. Although the technique of beating willow leaves is very accurate, he is not good at stopping and conditioning in time. In a short time, his strength was used up, and he couldn't pull his bow straight, nor could he shoot his arrow straight, and he missed the willow leaf once. This shows that this fable tells us to leave room for doing things. Otherwise, all the work before the meeting will be wasted. Version 2: Chu has young people and is good at shooting. Go to the willow and shoot it with a hundred paces. About a thousand people are good at shooting.
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Mrs. Wei is the mother of the monk's side, and she is rigorous and upright. Wang Zeng argued that when he was in Yancheng, he was a general commanding 3,000 people. He is over forty years old, but as long as he doesn't say what Mrs. Wei means, the old lady will whip him. Therefore, he can achieve something. When Emperor Yuan of Liang was in power, there was a student who was very clever and talented and loved by his father. When a word is right, my father praises him everywhere, all year round; When something went wrong, my father tried his best to cover it up for him, expecting him to correct himself. He has reached the age of studying for an official and getting married, and he is becoming more and more cruel and arrogant every day. Finally, he was killed by Zhou Ti. Because of his reckless speech, his intestines were taken out and his blood was smeared on the drum.
6. People with superior intelligence can become talents without teaching; People with low intelligence are useless even if they are indoctrinated; People with mediocre intelligence will not understand without teaching.
The wise kings in ancient times had the so-called prenatal education method: the queen was pregnant for three months and asked her daughter to move to another palace, with her eyes wide open and her ears pricked up; Music and diet should be controlled according to etiquette. The king wrote the method of prenatal education on a jade card and hid it in a gold cabinet.
When the prince was young, the Taishi and Taibao expounded loyalty, filial piety and propriety to guide his education. Even if ordinary people can't do this, they should be taught when they are still babies. They only know how to read people's expressions and distinguish people's emotions.
Let him do what he should do; If he is not allowed to do anything, he can do nothing. In this way, when you are five or six years old, you can be less punished by flogging.
Parents have dignity and love, and children will be afraid of caution and have filial piety. I think some parents in the world often can't do this. They just indulge their children and don't teach them.
Parents are too accommodating to their children's diet, words and deeds, and let them do whatever they want. Instead, the exhortation should be rewarded; You should be reprimanded, but laugh it off.
When children are sensible, they think that what they have done before is in line with the norms, and the habit of arrogance and contempt is formed. At this time, they will be punished. Even if they are killed, it is difficult for parents to establish their prestige. Parents are getting more and more angry, and children's resentment against their parents is getting deeper and deeper.
When such children grow up, they will eventually lose their virtue and their families will be broken. Confucius said: "The character developed by teenagers will get used to nature."
As the saying goes: "Educate your daughter-in-law to finish what she started;" Educate children to catch up early. " That's right! Parents who can't educate their children well don't want their children to commit crimes, but they are afraid of hurting their faces, so it is difficult to scold and curse their children. I can't bear to whip the Dalai Lama, for fear that the child will suffer from the pain of flesh and blood.
But, for example, if a person is sick, how can he treat the disease without acupuncture and decoction? We should also think about how parents who are diligent in urging and disciplining their children are willing to scold and abuse their own flesh and blood. This is a last resort! Mrs. Wei is the mother of the monk's side, and she is rigorous and upright. Wang Zeng argued that when he was in Yancheng, he was a general commanding 3,000 people. He is over forty years old, but as long as he doesn't say what Mrs. Wei means, the old lady will whip him.
Therefore, he can achieve something. When Emperor Yuan of Liang was in power, there was a student who was very clever and talented and loved by his father.
When a word is right, my father praises him everywhere, all year round; When something went wrong, my father tried his best to cover it up for him, expecting him to correct himself. He has reached the age of studying for an official and getting married, and he is becoming more and more cruel and arrogant every day.
Finally, he was killed by Zhou Ti. Because of his reckless speech, his intestines were taken out and his blood was smeared on the drum. There should be dignity between father and son, not too close to children; Kiss between flesh and blood, not too simple.
Simple and slow fever can't be filial, and too close will be neglected. For people above the literati class, father and son do not live together, which is a way to prevent intimacy; It is impolite to give parents pain relief and oxygen, and make a bed and quilt.
Someone asked, "Chen Ji was glad to hear that Confucius had alienated his son. Why? " I replied, "There is such a thing. It seems that a gentleman doesn't teach his son himself because there is irony in the Book of Songs. The warning of avoiding suspicion in the Book of Rites: Shangshu has apostasy; There are ironies in Spring and Autumn Annals. There is a symbol of tolerance in Zhouyi.
Related matters are not suitable for discussion between father and son, so it is impossible to teach in person. "Gao Yanyan, son of Beiqi Wu Chengdi, is the half-brother of the Prince. He is very talented, and Wu Chengdi and the queen like him very much.
His clothes and diet meet the prince's standards. Wu Chengdi often praises him to his face and says, "The child is very clever and will achieve something."
When the prince succeeded to the throne, the evil king moved to other palaces, and the ethical code gave special treatment, which was different from other kings. Empress Dowager Cixi felt that it was not enough and often nagged.
The evil king is about ten years old, arrogant and unruly, and keeps up with the emperor's brother with clothes and exotic toys. He once went to the South Temple to appear before the court, and saw the emperor's attendants, the imperial palace and Gou Jian, offering the emperor new ice cubes and plums. When he came back, he lost his temper and asked for nothing, yelling, "The emperor has it, why don't I!" I don't know the boundary between monarch and minister, but it's almost always like this.
People of insight sarcastically said that he was not as good as Duan Shu and knew the courtesy of the monarch and the minister. Later, because the evil king hated the Prime Minister, he falsely proclaimed an imperial edict to kill him, and worried that someone would help him, he ordered the sergeant to guard the temple door. He had no rebellious heart, and after listening to a few words of comfort from the emperor, he withdrew.
Later, he was finally imprisoned and died. People love their children, but few people can treat them equally. From ancient times to the present, there are many disadvantages.
Smart and beautiful children certainly deserve to be appreciated and cherished, and sons who play poorly and are stupid deserve more sympathy and love. An eccentric man wanted to spoil a child, but it hurt him.
Gong Shuduan's death was actually caused by his mother's style. Zhao's murder was actually caused by his father Liu Bang. Liu Biao's downfall and Yuan Shao's defeat were all caused by his preference for sons over daughters. This case can be used as a mirror for turtles and provide reference for future generations.
A scholar-bureaucrat in Northern Qi once said to me, "I have a son who is seventeen years old this year. He will write notes, teach him to play the lute modestly, and will learn soon. Using these skills to serve doctors or officials, no one does not love him.
This is also an emergency! "I bowed my head and said nothing. It's amazing how the scholar-officials educate their sons! If you flatter people like this, you can be an official of the prime minister. I don't want you to do that.