When encountering such a problem, parents should consider it in many ways, solve it better according to the actual situation of the child and the nature of the problem, and prevent the child from becoming an abuser. Violence is the only way to solve the problem.

Calm the child's mood

First of all, calm the child's emotions, wait until the child's emotions gradually calm down, and then ask the child the reason for the matter. At this time, what the child said is basically in line with the facts. Don't trust emotional children. At that time, it was easy for children to gain the protection and sympathy of adults by exaggerating.

Cultivate children's awareness of rights

Secondly, we should cultivate children's awareness of rights. When children are bullied, many children will choose to be patient, yield to those who are stronger than themselves, and dare not resist. This is because children have not yet established their own awareness of rights, self-awareness as independent individuals, and cannot have their own interests. Parents should cultivate children's awareness of rights, so that children have the courage to resist and say no, and don't always be patient.

Ask your parents for help

Thirdly, children should learn to ask their parents for help. Before the age of 6, children have not developed mature language, self-control and problem-solving ability, but they should be taught to ask for help and not to swallow it.

Protect yourself correctly

Finally, guide children to protect themselves correctly. Parents should inform their children in advance that it is most important to protect themselves if they are bullied, and they can fight back when necessary, such as when they are injured or others have excessive behavior.

Avoid overprotection

Parents should not protect their children too much, which will lead to the degradation of their self-protection consciousness. Parents should not be too strong and autocratic in front of their children. Parents should constantly cultivate their children's independent personality and help them build self-confidence and security.

♀? take exercise

Professor Li Meijin said: Take children to exercise, strengthen their physique, improve their ability to solve problems and promote their social development. Avoid children being bullied and avoid children bullying others.