Some turned curiously, and there was still half a bowl of noodles in mom's bowl. It seems that they don't want to eat. Chopsticks are on the table.
What did the mother say to the child? The child shook his head and insisted in a low voice: Mom, you should finish eating.
Teenagers talk and try to eat their noodles.
Mother looked pale and began to eat noodles.
I continue to feed my son. My three-year-old son said he was full and didn't want to eat any more. I tried to coax him: eat more. This is delicious. You haven't had enough.
Say that finish oneself all feel funny, just that mother and son is because of this problem.
Her son smiled happily at once.
The plates on their desks are clean.
In the afternoon, my son didn't eat any snacks.
It turns out that three-year-old children also know how much food to eat.
Our thoughts, to put it bluntly, are all imprisoned in the name of love, forcing children to do things they don't want to do under the guise of being good for you.
Countless parents like to use an old saying when educating their children: I eat more salt than you eat, so you should listen to me.
Is our decision really right? Even if it is true, do children necessarily like this kind of life?
Walking in the life designed by others or in your own life?
Chipa said that Zeng's debate was "If you could customize the perfect life for your child with one click, would you press the button?" 》。
I thought many parents would choose customization, but I didn't expect the result to be like this: 80% of the audience chose the perfect life and didn't customize it for their children.
Fu Hancheng told a story:
Fu Seoul said helplessly: The most handsome shoes are 35 yuan a pair.
You see, parents and children have different eyes!
Fu Hancheng said that because of family reasons, Excellence is his only goal.
What is the deepest love for children?
Let the children be themselves.
There is a saying on the Internet:
Aren't parents who set a perfect life for their children the third kind of birds?
Parents are happy to let their children live the perfect life of their parents, but what about their children? You will always be a puppet.
So am I me or my parents?
Allow the child to be himself, he will feel independent, he will feel that he is himself, and he will be really happy.
Tian Liang's daughter Sendie recently won the double champion, javelin and two bronze medals in the race in international competitions.
As a former "diving prince", Tian Liang also wanted his children to inherit the mantle, but Mori Yoshiro was just curious about diving, didn't like it, and even was afraid of diving.
Tian Liang, who likes children, gave up.
Mori has many hobbies, such as football, tennis and skateboarding.
Ye Yixi also said that in the way of daughter's education, let nature take its course. Let her do it if she likes it. She doesn't like it and won't be forced.
Sandy 10 birthday, Tian Liang sent to Weibo:
Tian Liang's expectation for her daughter is only happiness. As for what to do, Mori Yoshiro likes it.
True happiness is doing what you like, even if there are difficulties and obstacles on this road, because you like it and stick to it.
Everyone has different guesses about Mori's failure to inherit Tian Liang's mantle. I think the most important reason is:
No amount of expectation can compare with love for children. The best love is to allow children to be themselves, have their own hobbies and have their own growth direction.
In the process of children's growth, it is good to give them proper guidance and let them grow freely. Children like arsenic and honey.
Love your children, please allow them to grow up freely.
That's what my friend Marin did.
In hot summer, my daughter Linlin insists on wearing a cartoon coat in winter.
Lin's father was very angry when he heard this. You will get heatstroke if you go out in a coat in this weather. I strongly object.
Mother Lin persuaded her father and told Linlin seriously that it was very hot outside. If she puts on a coat, she will sweat a lot and feel uncomfortable.
After telling Linlin the consequences, Lin's mother agreed with Linlin's decision, adding that if the weather is very hot, she should take it off as soon as possible, and Linlin agreed.
When the three of them appeared in front of us, it was such a strange combination: Lin's parents and Lin's mother wore short sleeves and a big coat, sweating profusely.
I was about to ask when Lin Ma stopped me with her eyes.
Lin's mother showed our clothes first, then let her see the sun outside, and let her feel the thickness of the coat, and finally told her:
Linlin looked at it carefully before he took off his coat.
At the destination, Linlin happily wore a short skirt and went out to play with the children.
This is so right. Children who are under the protection of their parents for a long time will lose the ability to perceive things. Just like a child who has not been burned will never know what it feels like to be burned.
Sweet, sour, bitter and salty, only children can know if they feel it themselves.
As parents, we have experienced a lot along the way, but our experience is only our experience, which blends into our flesh and blood and goes deep into our brains, but only in our mouths and children's ears.
Without personal experience, children have no deep feelings.
Remember the story of the pony crossing the river?
Finally, the pony himself felt that the river was neither so shallow as the old cow said, nor so deep as the squirrel said.
Let our children try like ponies. They always have to find their own way.