The education of children is a problem that every family must face. In the process of educating children, adults must stand firm and form a United front to avoid unnecessary disputes and confusion. This paper will discuss how to grow up with children from four aspects: holding hands, fighting side by side, letting go moderately, listening and understanding.

Hand in hand

Children's education needs the joint participation and support of family members. Adults must stand firm and form a United front to avoid unnecessary disputes and confusion.

fight side by side

Fight side by side with children and lead them forward with the power of example. Adults need to keep learning and growing, and progress and grow with their children.

Let go moderately

Let go moderately, let children cope with challenges independently within their power, and cultivate their self-confidence and independence. Adults need to give children enough freedom and space, so that children can gradually become independent in the process of growing up.

Listen and understand

Listen and understand, treat children as independent individuals, respect their thoughts and feelings, and witness every wonderful moment of their growth together. Adults need to establish good communication and trust with their children, so that children can feel the warmth and support of their families when they grow up.