Under the long-term influence of paternalism, parents often regard their children as private property, so they usually think that they have the right to plan their children's future development, or that their children are not trustworthy. Only by being authoritative and strict can they discipline their children and make them more obedient. Some parents even think that only by disciplining their children in a simple and rude way can they be more promising. Only by letting children feel pain can they grow up better. But have parents ever thought that there must be a reason why children don't listen to you? Analyze the reasons and don't impose them on children. If the child doesn't understand the truth, it is more effective to let him know the truth patiently than to cry to the child.
Naughty children should be punished, how to punish them is an art, and beating and scolding education is not desirable. In fact, punishing them is not an end. The purpose of punishing them is to let them learn a lesson and know the truth. Children are well aware of some truth, but they still have to make similar mistakes, so they should be punished, otherwise children with poor self-discipline will not achieve the purpose of warning.
Punishing children is not necessarily to make them suffer, but to educate them in a more civilized way. After all, children are essentially different from kittens and puppies. Children also have brains and self-esteem. Unlike small animals, they can't understand the truth. They can only remember after dinner. First of all, should we use? Hit the heart? The strategy of persuading and educating children, the language should be to the point, and the facts should be concise and easy to understand. We don't speak well enough.
In my opinion? The best family education is that parents understand, tolerate, respect and trust their children? This gives children proper psychological and physical development and growth space. Parents can give them some guidance for adolescent children, and remember not to nag too much.