What problems should parents pay attention to when doing sex education for adolescent children?
1, pay attention to the method
After the child enters adolescence, it will usher in a rebellious period. Children begin to have their own opinions and are eager to get rid of their parents' control. At this time, sex education must not be forced, let alone conducted with a condescending attitude. It's best to talk as friends. If you can't talk about it, you can talk about these things with your child by letter.
2. Don't let children get in touch with sex life prematurely.
It is normal for adolescent children to be curious about sex. Parents must pay attention when doing sex education, and don't let their children get in touch with sex life prematurely. Children's sexual organs are not yet mature, and premature sexual behavior will bring many health problems. When conveying this meaning, we should pay attention to the way of expression, be tactful and not too tough, otherwise it will be more troublesome to cause children's rebellious psychology.
Step 3 teach children contraception
Whether it is a boy or a girl at home, children must be taught contraception during sex education. Many adolescent boys and girls can't help tasting forbidden fruit, don't pay attention to contraception, are pregnant with children, and can only choose induced abortion, which has a great impact on girls' health. Although children should be taught not to have sex prematurely, sometimes they have to. At this time, children should be taught to protect themselves.
4. Respect children's feelings
After puberty, many children find themselves attracted to the opposite sex, which is normal. There are also some children who fall in love early. As parents, we should treat puppy love correctly. Parents should never be too tough when dealing with puppy love. Being too tough will backfire and make their feelings stronger. We should adopt circuitous tactics to help them analyze the pros and cons of puppy love and let them choose whether to continue or end it.
Sex education for children is what every parent should do. Now many parents themselves lack sexual knowledge. In order to give children sex education, it is necessary to know and learn in advance, so as to be confident. I hope parents should be careful in this matter, which is a kind of protection for children.