Better say it in advance. My dad told me when I didn't have wet dream, saying that one day Blabla might come out when I was sleeping. I still looked stupid when I said it, but after what happened, I won't feel how stupid I am. But there must be a sense of shame, and it will definitely be shy to get it on the sheets and underwear. Taking it out at this time will aggravate the sense of shame. It is better to leave it alone and let the children wash it themselves. To sum up, say it in advance at the knowledge level, and don't deliberately say it at the psychological level, just pretend not to see it.

There are two male dolls in my house. Seeing this question, I suddenly froze. If the child really reaches wet dream's age, as a mother, I am really embarrassed to explain to the two little boys.

Even though I originally studied medicine, I am not ashamed to tell others about these physiological phenomena and even physiological structures, but I still feel uncomfortable when I want to talk about these things in front of my children. Even if I don't care, children will still feel shy when facing their mothers. Generally speaking, it is not appropriate for me to tell these things directly to my children.

The first method: write a letter to your child with the title: Congratulations to your son for entering a new growth period. Mom is happy for you!

Before children appear in wet dream, try to explain the process of male physiological development to his son through some physiological books, so that his son can be psychologically prepared in advance.

If all the children find wet dream, I, as a mother, will never expose it to her face, let alone make fun of her children. At this time, I will pretend nothing happened in front of the children, and then write a congratulatory letter and put it quietly on the desk in the children's room.

The content of the letter is the physiological development process of men and the matters needing attention when entering adolescence, and sincerely congratulates the children on their growth. That's it.

This method is suitable for children who are particularly shy, inarticulate and unwilling to communicate with their fathers.

The second method: give dad a task, let dad communicate with the children alone, and no one is present.

In this process, the father must show empathy, so that the child and the father can resonate and facilitate better in-depth communication.

This method should be more effective. After all, dad has also experienced it and will tell the children more vividly and concretely.

This method is suitable for the situation that the father is willing to communicate and the child accepts this form.

If there are boys in your family, you can try these two methods, which should be said to be very effective. They will not make children shy, but also achieve the purpose of explanation.

Many parents cross the river by feeling the stones, and don't like this kind of life experience very much, but they don't think so when they become parents. Sex education, for them, seems to be the hope that the next generation will advance naturally in groping.

As far as I am concerned, I am a medical worker. I intend to let children know the difference between men and women from an early age. Boys should know how to protect girls, girls should know how to be gentle and considerate, know how to divide toilets at a young age and know how to protect their privacy. When I am older, in the fifth and sixth grades, I will begin to tell them some changes in sexual development between men and women. Junior high school began to tell them the difference between sex organs and the origin, atlas and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. High school is with them, hoping that they will gradually understand love and restraint in ignorance.

Adolescence is the most sensitive period for children, and it is also the most likely period for children to deteriorate. So I'm going to lay a good foundation before my children reach puberty, and I don't want them to miss their youth because of sex.

When a boy comes to wet dream for the first time, I will tell him the origin of wet dream, how to pay attention to the hygiene after wet dream, and congratulate him on starting to grow up.

Please be sure to let the father explain to the child.

Unlike the nervousness and fear of girls' first menstrual cramps, boys' nocturnal emission usually faces shame.

It is common for girls to be scared to death when they have their first attack: Why did I bleed so much? Will I die?

A boy will secretly wash his underwear (or throw it away) when he has nocturnal emission for the first time, which will make him feel embarrassed!

If a child lacks physiological knowledge, he will think that he has "peed his pants". This is a teenager who still wets his pants. Let his parents know how humiliating it is?

If the child has a certain physiological knowledge, wet dream will eventually wet the clothes next to his body. There are differences between men and women. Let the mother say that the child will only be more ashamed.

So, please let dad talk at this time!

Don't say this is normal in the first sentence. The child is in a state of shame. This calm explanation can't make children listen, nor can it ease their emotions.

The first sentence should be: "Dad, for the first time, wet dream is the same/almost the same age as you!"

In this way, the child's emotions are instantly transferred to his father, and he can hear his "anecdote" and arouse his curiosity and interest. Moreover, he is "like you", letting children know that he is not "lonely" in wet dream, and that his father and himself are "on the same side".

It's better to explain something than how.

1. Physiology class

Take a biology book or some corresponding physical health information and tell your child the principle of wet dream:

Wet dream is a sign of male sexual maturity, also known as "spermatorrhea overflow", which is caused by excessive accumulation of semen, so it is also called spermatorrhea overflow, which is a physiological phenomenon. Wet dream mostly occurs in sleep, which is a kind of asexual ejaculation.

Statistics show that more than 80% unmarried men have had nocturnal emission, usually 2-3 times a month. As long as their physical and mental health is generally harmless, we must pay attention to the psychological burden.

2. Health knowledge

After wet dream, you should clean your private parts in time, change your underwear and keep dry.

But more importantly, tell your child that you have the ability to make a mature or mature woman pregnant, but you are not responsible. Have the ability to do ≠ can do, just as everyone has the ability to steal.

3. the opposite sex

When the child's body enters adolescence and hormones are at work, it is bound to have a strong interest in the opposite sex and become more curious.

They always want to know what the puberty development of the opposite sex is like, and the hormones of the opposite sex are also attracting children, which is the primitive instinct of human beings.

Please tell your children that people and animals are different. Animals live by instinct. They should eat, drink and breed when they breed. As an advanced animal, human beings are at the top of the food chain. Unlike animals, human beings can control their primitive instincts.

For example, blood can stimulate the animality of animals and human beings, but the beast can directly stimulate the animality in the face of blood, and human beings can control themselves and remain rational.

4. Sincerely congratulate your child.

Finally, please ask fathers to sincerely congratulate their children and shake hands with them.

This is because the child has gradually become a man, has been at the same level as his father, and has been at the same level as his father in reproductive ability. Congratulations to the child!

The significance of shaking hands is that we usually play the game of "shaking hands and making friends" with our children when they are very young, but with the growth of children's age, neither elders nor children will have such actions.

Handshakes are usually very popular among adults, such as welcoming and showing respect when meeting for the first time. Reach out to the child, shake hands with a man, and let the child feel the feeling of becoming an adult with actions.

Please observe the child carefully, but don't be found by him. See if he has watched movies and magazines and masturbated.

Don't think that the first wet dream = the first ejaculation. Wet dream is an unconscious behavior, and children can't control it by themselves, but masturbation is an active behavior.

If necessary, please popularize the knowledge of masturbation with your children: the relationship between frequency and health.

If necessary, please popularize the correct use of condoms to children. Don't be shy. Your shyness may make you have grandchildren very early. ...

Please understand how children get adult content! This is the most important concern!

To tell the truth, in our generation, most of the boys' sexual initiation teachers are movies on the island, which is not shameful.

If the child's acquisition method is the website, please pay attention to whether there are corresponding gambling, drug promotion and various pornographic live broadcasts;

If children are bought by various groups, please note that this is already illegal, and there are all kinds of teachings to be careful to prevent children from going astray;

If the content of children watching movies is some abnormal behavior, please take them to see a psychologist as soon as possible!

Many boys reached puberty, and wet dream was afraid to tell his parents for the first time. The first feeling of most children at this time is "how embarrassing, why do you still wet the bed when you are so old?" First of all, our parents should know when their children will start to wet dream and what wet dream will bring to their children physically and psychologically, and then they can guide them correctly.

Nocturnal emission is a normal physiological phenomenon in adolescence. With the continuous development, not only the testis can produce sperm and androgen, but also the seminal vesicle and prostate gradually mature and begin to secrete glandular fluid, which is the main component of seminal plasma. When these glandular fluids accumulate to a certain extent, the glands will contract under the action of the sexual center and produce nocturnal emission. The nocturnal emission during sleep is called "dream essence" and "wet dream"; The nocturnal emission when awake is called nocturnal emission. Puberty nocturnal emission is mostly a normal physiological phenomenon and an important signal that sexual development tends to mature.