said too much
Too many reasons can easily lead children to get tired of being obedient, so avoid being too verbose and be concise and clear.
Lack of persuasion
If you want children to accept it, you need to find more convincing reasons for children at different stages, which needs to be considered from the perspective of children.
Lack of authority
Let children realize that their parents' words are worth listening to through authoritative attitudes and behaviors.
Lack of unified signal
Parents need to be consistent in their values and educational policies. By releasing a unified and clear signal, it is easier for children to listen selectively.
Words differ from deeds.
To make children really obedient, in addition to being reasonable, they should set an example and do what they say.
lead by example
In order to make children more obedient, parents need to strengthen their authority and persuasion and give their children a unified and clear signal. More importantly, we should set an example and make our words and deeds a good example for our children.