Getting along with adolescent children is not only a science, but also an art. Let us keep learning and improve our quality and self-cultivation. We should be children's parents and elders, as well as children's mentor. Adolescent children have a lot of instability in the process of personality change. Parents should be good at guessing their children's psychology, correctly guide their children's preferences, and pay attention to language discretion, not to overdo it. Tolerance and discipline should coexist with children. Don't be too strict and don't ignore them. Don't get angry at once when you see children playing with mobile phones. You can give him time, but coercion will backfire.

Since the child has reached puberty, it is normal to fall in love. If parents don't want their children to fall in love in middle school, then it is necessary to ensure that parents give their children enough support, parent-child communication is smooth, and children trust their parents. Don't overreact to your child's adolescent love desire, accept and support it. If parents can't support their children in an equal and respectful way, then children will be more influenced by peers or peers, which is a state of out-of-control family education for parents. Fortunately, the peers of adolescent children are not limited to peers, parents can also be their peers, and teachers can also be regarded as peers and peers by children. Therefore, the key is always in the hands of parents, to see if parents can use it.

After a child enters adolescence, he will have a strong sense of self-existence as his mind matures. Adolescent children will have a special affection for the opposite sex. In addition, the study in senior two is relatively tense and stressful, so the two children naturally have emotional dependence. At this time, if parents are still telling their children what to do, it is easy to cause their children's resentment. Face up to quarrels, deal with them calmly, and regulate children's behavior by setting standards and boundaries. Of course, example is better than words. We should set an example and follow the set standards. Setting an example is the best way of family education.