Inertia is a weakness of human beings, which can be changed through continuous efforts and positive self-internalization, and should not be used as a reason to evade and shirk responsibility in anything.
For growing children, there will naturally be inertia. Often children are very young, and their own ability and energy are very weak. More often, they need to be reminded and urged by adult parents.
Some parents will be impatient. Many times, they simply go into battle by themselves and help their children to do some practical skills they should master through exercise (for example, children over 2 years old can try to wash handkerchiefs and eat with spoons, etc.). ).
Politeness is the first thing parents should guide their children, and China is also a country of etiquette, so children should know the concept of politeness in advance. If children are impolite, such as talking back and swearing, parents should not take it for granted and must be cruel to correct it. Polite children will give people a very comfortable feeling in front of society or friends, and parents will feel at ease.
Each of us should have experienced lying when we were young, and we also know the disadvantages of lying, as well as the education of children. Children should not be allowed to develop this habit of speaking; Lying is a bad habit that can be extended, just like shirking responsibility. Parents need to pay attention to their children's speech and behavior, tell them some related stories, or let them learn some related knowledge such as the importance of being an honest child. Only when parents guide them step by step can the children themselves be constantly corrected.
One thing parents do is to help their children avoid mistakes and dangerous things. Besides, there is no need for the mother to take care of what the child can do, such as dressing herself, eating herself, taking a bath, etc. Guiding children to do their own things at an early age will make them form a habit, know how to plan their own things reasonably, and will not think about always relying on their parents to do something. This way is also good for children.
Children begin to judge what they have to experience every day since they can remember. If every time a child encounters setbacks, parents come forward to help the child solve them, or even persuade the child to give up. In the long run, the child's ability to resist stress will decline, which will make the child unwilling to try risky things.