It's hard for children to resist the magic of mobile phones. We can totally understand that we adults are often addicted to mobile phones.
But as parents, we cannot ignore our children. In fact, if we can be good at guiding children according to their psychological characteristics, it is possible to get them out of their dependence on mobile phones and video games.
Last summer vacation, I went back to my hometown to visit relatives, consoled my parents and met my children at home. During the summer vacation, those "god beasts" all held their mobile phones, kept their hands all day, and even urged them to eat many times before they reluctantly put them down.
A closer look shows that they are not just playing games on their mobile phones. Now children aged 6 or 7 can use WeChat and Tik Tok. No wonder they can play all day. There are too many interesting things in their mobile phones!
Because their parents don't care much, these children have fun every day. Most children are forced to stop playing mobile phones because they almost have dark circles under their eyes.
Of course, a few words of persuasion from my uncle, who I don't often see, are useless. I'm really worried about the eyes and future of my little nephew and niece!
I see that the mobile phone is like a demon, not only trapping children in this virtual little world, but also sucking their spirit every day, making the children who should be alive and kicking become depressed.
Because of infatuation with mobile phones, children's eyesight is reduced and their sleep is also affected. All kinds of unhealthy information on the Internet will also destroy their mental health. Children don't want to go out to play, and the sunshine, flowers and friends in life become strangers ... this is not a situation that we adults are happy to see.
It is better to go to school normally, and it is easy for children to control when they go home to play with their mobile phones. However, when the school is on holiday, it is difficult for children to manage more after school.
On weekdays, children spend most of the day at school, and their daily study schedule is tight, and there are many classmates to accompany them, so there are not many opportunities to play.
But once you have a holiday, it's different. There will be no classes and no classmates to accompany you. There will be a big gap at once, and your role as a "student" will be suspended at once.
From a psychological point of view, children's "student role" is interrupted, and they can't find their own roles and things to do for a while. It is easy to be attracted by the fresh and exciting things on the mobile phone and go there to find a sense of belonging.
Nowadays, many parents are busy with their own work or their own affairs, and often ignore the companionship of their children. Their children can only regard their mobile phones as their "companions" and "playmates" when they come home, especially during holidays.
In order to avoid being "harassed", parents often acquiesce in their children playing mobile phones. In the long run, children's dependence on mobile phones will become stronger and stronger.
Their children are addicted to mobile phones and become "fat houses" at an early age, which no parents want to see. In fact, one of the reasons why children are addicted to mobile phones is because they are confused and don't know what to do.
Parents should make a plan for their children's holidays and arrange when and what to do, so that their children's play time, study time and rest time will not be chaotic.
As parents, we must master the control of mobile phones and tell children that it is not to prevent children from playing with mobile phones, but to have a control.
As parents, we should guide them to understand their role as children. Although there are some learning and extracurricular content apps on mobile phones, they are happier in reality, and many of them are irreplaceable by mobile phones, such as drawing, playing the piano, playing football and so on.
If children find their favorite extracurricular activities, they will feel much more interesting than staring at the mobile phone screen all day! Children are more curious about the outside world than adults. When they discover the fun of the real world, they will take the initiative to get out of the virtual world in their mobile phones.
Parents can take their children for picnics, camping, running and swimming with them. In this case, I believe no child will say that he wants to hold his mobile phone and don't want to go outdoors to breathe fresh air.
It can be seen that as parents, it is not difficult to break children's dependence on mobile phones. As long as you see the harm of this behavior and really think about your child, you can spend more time guiding your child.
Parents should know that this cracking behavior is not to "preach the truth" to children, nor to forcibly confiscate their mobile phones, but to let children understand the truth of life and the charm of the real world in a gentle and natural way, and they will naturally put down their mobile phones.