This book tells us from eight aspects that in the long years of life, we will always encounter various setbacks. If we face these setbacks with enough spirit, enough reasons and confidence, we will use hard work instead of complaining, smooth our way forward with difficult setbacks and add luster to our future. Because complaining can't produce any joy, nor will it add luster to our life and work, so "complaining is better than changing", education is a kind of wisdom, and teachers should have the wisdom to educate people. In our educational work, if we abandon the idea of making all students "brilliant" and conform to nature, will there be more smiling faces of children?
Our teacher often complains: Why are children so disobedient now? Why are you so restless? Why is it so difficult to teach? Why do you dislike studying so much? Parents don't care anyway. In fact, think calmly, maybe our teacher made a mountain out of a molehill and was absent-minded in class. Let's remind them. Make trouble with your classmates and tell them to get along well and not be too impulsive. In fact, as soon as they turn their faces, they will forget all the contradictions. Some students didn't finish all their homework. Maybe things at home delayed them, but they didn't finish it occasionally. Some students didn't do well in the exam, because he could only do that, that level, and he did his best. When dealing with students' problems, our teachers should try to trust confident students and try to control their emotions. This can not only solve the problem, but also teachers and students have learned a lot.
There are some things that I think I just need to tell my children. After all, there is no child who does not make mistakes. The key is that they don't give up their studies and continue to work hard. We don't need to be strict with them and treat them differently. We can't look at students with colored glasses. We should encourage them more and criticize them less.
Every child's needs in the growth stage are different, so he should know how to instill and guide when he is ignorant; Put it down when you are old; When he is completely independent, there will be encouragement and spur. Love is not only a single way to carry it out all the way, but also has layers. As long as we are good at guidance, flexible use of educational methods and the right medicine, genius may appear in our hands. We should teach students more attentively and feel them. To feel another kind of wealth that life brings us. If you put your heart into it, you can teach students a lot of things, not just subject knowledge! It doesn't matter if students can't be doctors, let them become useful people, and those who contribute to society will benefit more! We give students expectations and they become our expectations. Are you smiling at your expectations, or are you struggling with your expectations? Smile in response to expectations, expectations will increase and you will find more and more happiness! Life is a mirror, you smile at it; You cry, and it cries. "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself", always pay attention, stay happy and be a sunshine teacher. Treat every child with a tolerant heart.
In a word, education is pinning the expectations of hundreds of millions of families for a better life. Education is the national economy and people's livelihood. Education is today and tomorrow. The key to education lies in teachers, and teachers' no regrets and positive energy are particularly important.