Today we will talk about several common bad habits of failed parents. It's not too late to correct it! 1, love children too much
If parents do this and that for their children under the banner of "love" and don't let the children experience it personally, the children will never grow up and rely more on their parents ideologically.
Parents are advised to let go at an appropriate time, let their children experience life, and tell them that if they want to gain something, they must pay, so that their children can get exercise, which is more helpful for their future development.
2. vent your emotions on your child.
Some parents will vent their emotions on their children when they have emotions, and such behavior of parents will hurt their children's psychology. Parents vent their emotions blindly to their children, so this negative emotion will increase their psychological burden and affect their personality development.
Children are not your "trash can". Parents should look at what is happening around them from a fair perspective, which helps to cultivate children's fair attitude.
3. Lose confidence in children
Some parents cheat their children by lying, but they don't know that their children have judgment on lies. If children find that their parents lie to them, their trust in their parents and their sense of security in their families will collapse, and they will misunderstand the lying behavior and think that it is not wrong.
It is suggested that parents should be sincere when dealing with their children, don't perfunctory their children with lies, and let them understand the importance of honesty.
4. Compared with children.
Parents satisfy their vanity by comparing their children with other people's children, but children are psychologically burdened because they are used as tools by their parents, which will affect their self-awareness and lead to inferiority complex.
Parents should learn to find the unique bright spots in their children, instead of judging them by other people's standards, so that their children will have more possibilities for future development.
5, like nagging
In the face of parents' nagging, children can't hide, but their inner antipathy will gradually deepen. Smart parents don't need to nag in the process of educating their children. Parents who know how to educate will cultivate their children's behavior habits when their children have certain cognitive ability. Parents only need to say it once, and the child will finish it on time without nagging.
Most parents who like to nag do not pay attention to the guidance and education of their children when they are young, which leads to the bad habit of procrastination. Parents are advised to pay attention to the importance of cultivating habits and cultivate their children at an appropriate time. Good habits will reduce parents' educational burden and help their children's future development.