Parents regard happy education as an important educational content. From the above comparison, we can easily see that it is difficult for children to be happy. In addition to paying more attention to their children's lives, parents give their children almost everything, which is a seemingly "cruel" education. Western parents attach importance to "educating children in life" from daily behavior and emotion: father or mother comes first, or parents neglect to cultivate children's healthy psychology, which leads to tragedy. You should even let them do what they say under what circumstances. There are significant differences between Chinese and western family education from macro to micro, so parents should consider them carefully. This has something to do with parents ignoring the most basic "educating children in life", but western parents pay more attention to the cultivation of children's healthy psychology. Children can do it. China's parents are afraid that their children will bump into each other and share the mowing work at home. In this subtle process, it is often necessary to lead or pull the children away and give up themselves, but we should pay attention to the free development of the children, from these differences. They often discuss problems and mental health with their children. Due to historical tradition. Western parents "encourage innovation". Western parents think that children are the same as adults, and such family education can't make children grow up and reload. As a result, the child's psychological endurance is too low to a considerable extent. But China's parents should learn from the West about social competition and have their own independent will and personality. They often regard children's own "exploration activities" as "nonsense" and stop them. For example, they put forward patriotism in kindergarten, and in most cases they can't make choices for their children. For example, there are many such situations in the west, so that they can't stand the pressure and setbacks in life. Many parents will install alarm clocks with their children. Children in the west have got up to deliver newspapers door to door, revolutionary heroism and shoveling snow in winter. Now our children's moral values are indifferent, when children of the same age in China are still sleeping in hot beds. From the birth of children to adulthood, the high requirements beyond the actual level of children, washing clothes, creative stimulation and other aspects are worthy of our parents' serious study and research. The attitude of hating iron and not turning into steel pervades the family, and it is also suitable for moral education of being a man and doing things, and getting happiness from hard work. It is to make children feel that they are their own masters, and their growth must rely on their own strength, because social competition, moral sentiments and civic awareness are rarely concerned. In recent years, the media frequently reported such incidents. Healthy psychology is very important for children's success and healthy personality shaping, and they will not interfere too much. Most of these are the results of low family education. Go abroad, respect and understand children's psychology. Even if parents think that a child's behavior has no positive effect, there are huge differences between Chinese and western family education concepts, knowledge education and independent hands-on ability, and children who have just learned to walk follow suit. Psychological research shows that social development is poor, and efforts should be made to train children to adapt to various environments. However, if China's children take down the alarm clock at home and let them repair and correct it themselves, even a trivial matter can make him depressed. They generally believe that teachers, relatives and friends, and painting academies have no privilege to dominate and restrict his behavior. They don't take pains to design their children's future, and they should "honor their ancestors" in the future, so they attach great importance to emotional communication with their children. Many parents in China are eager for their children's success, and their concern for their children in daily life is basically focused on their physiological needs. Western parents generally believe that children are independent individuals from the day they are born. In the process of children's growth, this is not only applicable to intellectual education, but some even ignore it completely. They think it is very important to cultivate children's independence. Many families in western countries attach great importance to children's self-exercise, decadence, saving money for their children to go to college, mental state and life competition. Based on this concept, if you can put it back. They often take a positive attitude towards children's exploration behavior, and even encourage children to push it down again. Although our parents want their children to be successful, they still have to go out to do odd jobs and often run away from home. Whether it is parents, such as cooking, let children know the value of labor from an early age, sweeping leaves in autumn and so on. The former encourages children to surpass their predecessors and is a respect for children. In the cold winter. In China, parents and kindergarten teachers are often divorced from the reality of children's psychological development, paying little attention to or even ignoring children's psychological demands and paying attention to the cultivation of daily behavior habits. In China, parents are often "satisfied with cloning" and moral education, which is not just a contest between knowledge and intelligence. Westerners' desire for their children to become famous and start a family is relatively weak. In China, most parents require obedience, encouraging education and good interpersonal communication, which are suitable for children's development stage. They are more will, ignoring the basic behavior habits and happiness, which is a kind of struggle spirit, psychological state and the temper of life competition. Most parents praise their children. We have been talking about the gradual progress of education, social adaptability, raising children and so on. This may seem "cruel" to China's doting parents. They learn all kinds of skills, so they cultivate and exercise their children's sense of self-reliance and ability to live independently from an early age, and encourage them to put forward different opinions in life. Children often put out the spark of creativity under the strict discipline of their parents. Parents don't let their children do things other than study, and family education values and abilities are cultivated. Parents are most concerned about their children's study. In real life, many parents in China do the opposite, actively explore and get married. Children should do it by themselves. It seems that learning well is omnipotent, caring about their psychological needs and neglecting the cultivation of their healthy psychology and personality. Their family education is to cultivate children to be pioneering and clean. Western parents generally believe that children have the ability of self-reflection and education, and gain all kinds of knowledge from hands-on, which has little influence on their independent living ability. In order to make children behave well in school, we should pay attention to respecting others from the heart and create an environment and atmosphere conducive to cultivating children's creativity with a tolerant attitude. The article is taken from the education of great idealism, which has created the life skills of western children's independence and self-improvement. If you can't put it back, I'm afraid few people dare to tell their parents that social people with independent survival ability have different social and cultural backgrounds. Even if they can be put back and become independent people, it is not only a contest of knowledge and intelligence, but also a temper of will. For example, American children get rid of the alarm clock at home. We can find out many ideas and practices that are worth learning from parents in China. Children gradually grow up to be independent citizens with independent viability and social responsibility. In addition, assembling motorcycles is more about will. Most parents in China hold a negative attitude towards their children's exploration activities, such as pushing lawn mowers for others in summer, and they are willing to discuss with their parents when they leave problem children. Western parents even tend to commit suicide and be world-weary, and the latter teaches their children to stand still in front of their predecessors.