TED community lecturer Ray Rebecca said: Bullying makes no difference. It can happen in every corner of the world? Rebekah Bart collected teachers from all walks of life, psychologists, and experts engaged in bullying counseling in the front line to share what we can do when children encounter bullying. Here are 9 professional suggestions from all walks of life:
1. Asking for help is not weakness.
Eric, a sixth-grade primary school teacher from Indiana, USA? Qiang Sen in "How do you want to be remembered? How do you want to be remembered? In the TED talk, he advised the bullied people to seek help. Don't think this is a sign of weakness. If you are alone, the bully will be happier because he just wants you to be isolated. When the bullied person feels helpless, the bully will get worse.
2. Telling others is not a snitch.
Nadia, Dean of Mott Hall Bridge College in Brooklyn, new york, USA? Nadia Lopez wrote in Why did you start a school? Going to prison (why do you want to open a school? Prison), one of the most frightening things for children in group life is to become an "informer"; However, today, when children are afraid to go to school and enter the classroom, and even some students will unconsciously tremble when they approach, then telling others is not a snitch, but a kind of "self-protection." "
3. Let your circle of friends help you
Nancy Lublin, founder and CEO of Crisis SMS Hotline, pointed out in his ted talk, "How Data Comes from Crisis SMS Hotline Is Changing Life" that bullies usually don't do this in public. So as long as you are always with your trusted friends, people who want to bully you will shrink back, and friends can also provide necessary help when you need it.