As a graduate with more than ten years' experience, it is always difficult to smoke a cigarette when I see the hype about high-scoring students in the news reports of the college entrance examination, and then I suddenly spit out a sentence: Aren't these high-scoring students important to me? But as a parent, I also hope that my children can become the first in the local college entrance examination in a few years. This tangled mood has disturbed my sleep.
The top scholars in various provinces and cities have become headlines in the media. The school that produced the number one scholar has new capital to recruit students to show off, the teacher who trained the number one scholar has proud peaches and plums, and the family that produced the number one scholar has been madly reported by the media. Thank you for being interviewed, participating in the float parade and giving awards to the company. Thousands of people follow this process every year.
Enjoy generous treatment and welfare in all aspects. From family background to external evaluation, from study habits to present mental state, from personal career ideal to winning glory for the university ... Compared with the "gossip" of entertainment stars, society pays more attention to this point. They will walk into a new city, start a new life and expect to meet better themselves. But when the elites of exam-oriented education get together and struggle from scratch, the gap will soon appear. Some people say that their IQ, knowledge level and self-control ability are similar. Why is there a difference?
The gap is not IQ, but the vision of society. Many students with high scores are addicted to learning, but they are really idiots in life. Can't cook, can't wash, can't peel eggs. In fact, the fate of these students is tragic. They live too comfortably in the greenhouse of home-school society and have never experienced ups and downs. Once you enter a relatively self-care university, you will be trapped, lost, cheated and starved, and everything will happen.