Suggestion 1: Help boys to establish a correct view of gender. Although a person's sex is determined at the moment of fertilization, at the psychological level, the psychological development of gender is from 3 years old to adulthood and reaches its peak in adolescence. Children around the age of 3 will clearly know whether they are boys or girls, but they will also ask curiously why girls wear long hair and skirts to play house wine, while boys wear pants and short hair to play horse-riding fighting games. This is the beginning of children's gender psychological development. At this stage, mothers should pay attention to two principles, one is to let boys know how to protect their bodies, and the other is to let boys have a positive image of all parts of their bodies. Research shows that as an only-child boy, he is loved by his parents and elders since childhood, seldom takes outdoor sports, likes watching cartoons and playing computer at home, is used to jumping and thinking illogically, and doesn't know how to feel the people and things around him, so he tends to become selfish and indifferent. Some boys are old enough to get married and still think like children. They have no sense of "shoulders" at all and can't bear the heavy burden. So mothers should cultivate boys' gender awareness as soon as possible. Suggestion 2: Tell boys about sex naturally. The mother let the boy know his body. There are many natural ways in life, not as serious and orthodox as a teacher giving lessons to students. For example, to bathe a boy, you can tell him the names and functions of various parts of your body and turn bathing into an interesting game. When changing clothes in public, tell him not to change clothes in public, but to find a sheltered place because some parts of his body are private. This will naturally let boys know their gender and realize the difference between men and women. For children's sexual problems, mothers should try to tell him in simple language that these are natural things, so that children can have a correct and scientific understanding of the body. Mother will mention the words "breast" and "penis" generously, just as naturally as telling him that this is an apple and that is a banana. Of course, at the same time, we must tell our children that some parts of the human body are private and privacy cannot be exposed, otherwise it will be embarrassing. Mother must first correct her own thoughts, so as to give the boy the correct guidance. In fact, boys' questions about sex are as simple as "What to eat tonight". Mom only needs a very intuitive answer, and too many in-depth answers will confuse the boy's thinking. Recommendation 3: Early sex education for boys is related to the healthy growth of boys' body and mind, as well as the stability of family and society. Sex education includes many aspects such as sex physiology, sex psychology, sex morality and sex ethics, among which sex morality is a very important part. Sexual morality is the sum total of social norms for human beings to adjust sexual behavior of both sexes. It can maintain the stability of social order and ensure the normal progress of social life. Generally speaking, the content of sexual morality can be summarized as: sexual ethics; Correct views on love, chastity and fertility. Its core is love and respect. Mothers should educate boys to respect the privacy of themselves and others. Boys should be instilled with the concept of privacy from the beginning of sex education. The mother should tell the boy that the genitals are private parts of people, and others have no right to see or touch this part without permission. Mothers should send positive messages to boys through nonverbal behaviors, such as the principles of mutual respect, loyalty, sharing housework, respecting the old and loving the young, helping others, being polite, being serious and responsible for their work, being honest and trustworthy, which is the best education for children. (This article Source: Netease Parent-child)