Educating children is a headache for parents. Only by adopting active and healthy educational methods can children's physical and mental development be promoted. Or do something wrong, don't beat and scold. Be sure to guide and actively communicate with children. Only in this way can the child be willing to communicate with you, and finally the child can really realize that he has done something wrong. Let's take a look at this.

What happened?

If children are not allowed to tell stories from his perspective, they are likely to be wronged. Moreover, if the child is given a chance to speak, even if it is really his fault, he will be more willing to admit his mistake because he has a chance to defend himself.

How do you feel?

Once you say it, you will feel much better when you cry and scold. Brain science research shows that when a person's mood is high, external stimuli are not easily absorbed by the brain. In other words, when a person still has emotions, he won't listen to what others say.

What do you want?

At this time, no matter what amazing words the child said, don't rush to teach him, but ask him the fourth question calmly.

How do you think?

At this stage, you might as well brainstorm with your children and come up with all kinds of ideas, reasonable, unreasonable, ridiculous, ridiculous, disgusting, naive ... The key point of brainstorming is to allow any seemingly absurd ideas.

What are the consequences of these methods?

Let the children check one by one. What are the consequences of each method? You may be surprised to find that most children understand the consequences of things. If there is a gap in his cognition, you can discuss it with him at this time and let him understand the truth. This is a good opportunity for parent-child communication, but avoid preaching and just state the facts.