When children are young, parents should help them get rid of prejudice and learn tolerance. I am a kindergarten teacher. On one occasion, Dandan's mother took Dandan, who was under 4 years old, to participate in parent-child activities organized by the school. When I arranged for the children to complete the building activities in pairs, Dandan refused to cooperate with the boy in old clothes beside her. She even frowned and said to her mother, "I'm not with him. I don't like the old clothes he wears. "
Dandan's mother is worried that these words will affect the boy's self-esteem. She hurriedly pulled her daughter out of the classroom and severely reprimanded her in the corridor: "How can you say such a thing?" At this point, Danny just looked at his mother blankly and was silent. For children of Dandan's age, it is not surprising to show such "ruthlessness" because they have been able to notice the characteristics of others that are different from themselves. As children grow up, the world they face is diversified.
Therefore, when educating their children, parents should try their best to help them change their prejudices and shape a tolerant character, and the best time is in their childhood. Parents can help their children accept the "different" places in others through the details of life and treat these differences correctly. Methods 1: "Lemon" training. In this activity, parents give everyone in the family a lemon and then learn about it with their children. They can roll lemons on the ground and taste or smell them.
Then concentrate the lemons in a basket and let the children find the one they just played with. Although some lemons are dirty and dry, children will still think their own is the best. Tip: peel off the lemon peel and let the children find the lemon themselves, so the children will not recognize it. This activity can make children realize that although people are different in appearance, they are all the same in heart.
Method 2: Analyze features. Help your child know how he is different from others, for example, other children may be shorter than him, slightly fatter, wear glasses and are not good at playing football, and then compare these characteristics. Tell your child the fact that everyone has his own characteristics. Some people will think that others are not as good as themselves because they see the differences between them, but this is not the case and should not be thought so.
Method 3: Give an example. Parents can discuss the harm of lack of tolerance with their children through an incident in the community or a scene described in a movie as an educational opportunity.