Every parent wants their children to succeed in school, but they don't know how to educate and guide them. ? I recommend this article to everyone today, hoping to help every parent. ? In fact, if children don't study hard, the key is that they are not interested in learning. There are three main reasons for this phenomenon:? First, there are too many chores in children's minds, thinking too many things that have nothing to do with learning, and their self-control ability is poor; ? Second, children often run into difficulties in their studies, do not solve difficult problems, have unsatisfactory test results, and are mentally hit; ? Third, the learning method is incorrect, which takes up a lot of time in learning, but the efficiency is not high. In order to make children interested in learning, it is necessary to find out the main reasons why children lose interest in learning, and then prescribe the right medicine to make children interested in learning gradually. ? First, it is necessary to clear children's thoughts and improve their self-control ability. Children are too distracted, which is related to family background. Husband and wife should not quarrel, at least not in front of the children. Don't talk about family income and expenditure in front of children, don't let children know too much about things that have nothing to do with learning, and ensure that most of their energy is spent on learning. ? Second, we should enhance children's self-confidence. Let children feel that they are the best among their classmates, and their academic performance is not good, just because they have no intention to study. If he studies hard, he will surely become a strong one among his classmates. It is necessary to strengthen guidance so that children can excel in a certain aspect, and then "point to face" so that children can improve their interest in learning. For example, children can do difficult problems and broaden their thinking by doing difficult problems. Children often do some difficult problems that other students can't do, and naturally they will be appreciated by their classmates and their self-confidence will be enhanced. For another example, letting children recite poems and tell stories can not only enrich their knowledge, but also make them "shine" in front of their classmates and make them feel that they are really better than other classmates. Children can also recite and tell English stories, which can not only improve their oral English ability, but also make them familiar with English grammar and be better than other students. Children can always "show off" in front of their classmates and know the fun of hard work behind them. Over time, children will become interested in learning? Third, let children master the correct learning methods and use their time efficiently. At home, parents should not take too much care of their children, but let them combine work and rest and use their time effectively. For example, children can be allowed to do their homework for half an hour, and there are activities in 10 minutes. In the half hour of doing homework, parents should supervise their children to concentrate, and set a time for each question, so that children can finish their homework within the specified time and with high quality. When doing activities, let the children put their homework aside for a while and let their brains relax completely. After the activity, let the children forget the content of the activity and get into learning quickly. After such long-term training, children can "afford to let go", combine work and rest, and improve time utilization. ? Fourth, we should praise more and criticize less; More guidance, less reprimand. If children have made a little progress in their studies, they should praise them vigorously, affirm their achievements and give them a sense of honor. When children make mistakes, don't criticize them severely, but persuade education with friendly language to avoid children's inferiority. In learning, parents should give more guidance, and children should patiently answer questions they don't understand, so as not to give up on themselves and lose interest in learning. In this way, children can keep a happy mood and devote themselves to their studies. Finally, I wish your child academic progress! !