Parents' education methods mainly include:
A laissez-faire approach; Authoritative autocratic way; Dictatorial and overbearing ways; Words and deeds; Threat method; Put facts and reason; The way to please and seduce; A simple and rude way; The caring way of the nanny; The way of crazy love; Democratic consultation mode; Praise and encouragement.
Some types of introductions
1, let go of indifference
In the way of parents' education, the most worrying thing is this laissez-faire way. Always looking for excuses to be busy with work and indifferent to children's life and study.
Let children's thoughts and behaviors drift, basically have no communication with them, just take care of their three meals a day. The children educated in this way have weak feelings and are at a loss for the future.
2. Authoritative and authoritarian ways
Many parents especially like to educate their children with their parents' authority, and veto all their thoughts and behaviors with their parents' authority and autocracy. Let the children feel depressed and dare not say anything.
Force children to submit to their parents with authority and autocracy, and do not allow children to have their own views and ideas. The children educated in this way will feel inferior and timid, and even have no opinions.
3. Dictatorship and overbearing ways
Any thoughts and opinions of children are adopted by ruthless dictatorship and veto power. And in an overbearing way, it accumulates and suppresses children's subjective initiative, forcing children to live and study in their own way. The children educated in this way will also become overbearing and unreasonable.
4. Words and deeds
Near Zhu Zhechi, the power of example. This kind of parents' education way is to educate their children imperceptibly through their own words and actions. Children thrive in an environment of harmony, sunshine, examples and benchmarks. The children thus educated are full of self-confidence, justice and responsibility.
5. Threatening means
Many parents like to use this threat when educating their children. For example, if you don't obey, you will be thrown away; If you don't eat well, you will be locked in a dark room;
If you don't study hard, you won't buy anything. This threatening education method can easily leave a shadow in children's hearts, leading to timidity.