Nowadays, more and more attention is paid to sex education, especially for girls. Teaching them to respect themselves and protect themselves has become an important part of children's family education. So, at what age should we start sex education for girls?

As soon as a child is born, as long as his eyes can see and his ears can hear, he begins to look at his parents' appearance and various behaviors. Gradually, she will find some differences between her parents. In this process, children begin to know some characteristics of men and women, and when they are two and a half to three years old, they can confirm their gender. Therefore, domestic experts tend to agree on how old girls are to have sex education. They think it's too late for parents to wait until their children reach puberty, but in fact, the earlier sex education starts, the better, and 0-3 years old is a very critical period. Some people of insight also suggested that sex education should start from the age of zero, even in the mother's belly.

The sex education a child receives will affect her sexual self-awareness, gender role behavior, gender self-expression, emotional response and future sexual goal choice. Therefore, correct sex education will benefit children's lifelong happiness. If there is no correct sex education, children will lack sexual knowledge and may have behaviors that do not love themselves in the future.

How should I give my daughter sex education?

1, start as soon as possible

To conduct sex education for daughters, we must seize the three golden periods of sex education as soon as possible. 0~6 years old, mainly to let her have a preliminary understanding of gender, know that boys and girls are different, and tell them basic health knowledge. For example, don't touch your private parts, don't let others touch your private parts, and so on. From the age of 7 to adolescence, I hope parents can tell their daughters how to protect their bodies, and if they are hurt, they should tell their parents in time. After puberty, we should choose the right time to talk about sex with our children and tell them what sex is and how to protect themselves during sex.

Step by step

Sex education can't be completed in one or two conversations, and it takes a long time to communicate. Parents must master this degree and don't worry too much. Be sure to make a good start and build a good communication bridge with your children. Speaking of this, the child suggested that communication has not yet arrived and the communication method is incorrect. Parents seek professional advice, listen to sex education courses more, and make adjustments according to their actual situation.

3. Don't be too tough.

Many parents have two extremes when facing their daughters. 1 extreme is extreme doting, and the second extreme is extreme toughness. No matter which extreme, we can't be too tough on sex education. From the beginning, it is easy to deviate from the child's sexual concept by teaching and criticizing. It is easy to make children feel disgusted and disgusted, thinking that sex is dirty and evil, which is not conducive to her future development.

4. always pay attention to protect yourself.

Facing girls of different ages, it is very important to protect yourself. When you are young, don't let others touch your private parts. When you are old, you should know how to refuse others' pursuit of you. At the age when you shouldn't fall in love and eat fruit, you'd better not try it easily. When you encounter emotional problems that you can't solve, you should actively seek the help of your parents and don't bear it alone. It's not your own fault to get hurt. Tell your parents to protect you.

5. Pay attention to the construction of three views.

Sex education should not only impart sexual knowledge, but also form three views. Some girls are vain, like the pursuit of boys, don't give boys clear information, and it is easy to get hurt when walking between different boys. Parents should tell these girls to refuse if they don't like it, and don't covet other people's things. We should establish correct three views and maintain noble character.

Parents with daughters are always worried. Actually, it's normal to worry. While ensuring the healthy growth of children, we should also do a good job in sex education. The consequences of lack of sex education are more serious. The above are the problems that need to be paid attention to in sex education for daughters, hoping to help parents.