The story of educating children in ancient times (Xiang Xianghe)
During the Warring States period, Qin was the strongest and often attacked other countries.
Lin Xiangru, the Scheerer of the State of Zhao, was ordered to go to the State of Qin and returned to the State of Zhao intact, so he was named a doctor. He also accompanied the prince of Zhao to the Mianchi meeting set by the king of Qin, so that the prince of Zhao would not be insulted. In recognition of Lin Xiangru's contribution, the Prince of Zhao named Lin Xiangru Shangqing.
Lian Po was not convinced. He said to others: I am invincible and have made a lot of contributions. What is Lin Xiangru capable of? He just climbed on my head with one mouth. I met him and had to give him some color to see see! ? This word reached Lin Xiangru's ear, and Lin Xiangru called in sick to avoid meeting Lian Po.
One day, Lin Xiangru went out by car and saw Lian Po riding a big horse. He quickly asked the driver to drive the car back. People in Lin Xiangru don't like it. They said that Lin Xiangru was afraid that Lian Po would see a cat like a mouse. Why should he be afraid of him? Lin Xiangru said to them: Please think about it, who is better, the general or the king of Qin? They said: of course, the king of Qin is awesome! ? Lin Xiangru said: I am not afraid of the king of Qin. Will I be afraid of General Lian? As is known to all, the King of Qin did not dare to attack our State of Zhao, just because he had Lian Po in martial arts and Lin Xiangru in literature. If we quarrel, it will weaken Zhao's strength, and Qin will definitely take the opportunity to hit us. I avoided General Lian for Zhao! ?
Lin Xiangru's words reached the ears of Lian Po. Lian Po calmed down and thought about it, feeling that he had neglected the interests of the country in order to win a sigh of relief. This is very wrong. So he took off his shirt, put thorns on his back, and went to Lin Xiangru's door to confess his sins. Lin Xiangru saw Lian Po come to offer a humble apology, and hurriedly came out to warmly welcome him. From then on, they became good friends and defended Zhao together.
Words of wisdom: tolerance is great. Lin Xiangru attaches great importance to the affairs of state, always endures, lives in peace, and helps the country and makes it safe.
The story of educating children in ancient times (forbearance in public art)
There was a Zhang Gongyi in the Tang Dynasty. His family lived under the same roof for nine generations, so it was harmonious and prosperous, which attracted the attention of the emperor.
His ancestors began to be valued by the emperor at that time in the Northern Qi Dynasty, praising the family for living in harmony and being a model for the neighborhood. It was also praised by the court in Sui Dynasty and Emperor Taizong. When we arrived in Tang Gaozong, the family was still thriving.
On one occasion, Gaozong crossed the Dangzhou area of Taishan Road to visit Zhang Gongyi and asked him: Why can your family live in harmony and so many people live together?
Zhang Gongyi asked for a pen and paper to answer, and Emperor Gaozong gave him a pen and paper. He raised his pen and wrote more than a hundred times in a row? Endure? The word was presented to the emperor and said:? Everything in a family is conducive to' forbearance'? . ?
? Why can't clans live in harmony? The most important thing is that * * * is biased, selfish, and selfish in food, clothing, housing and transportation. Of course, family members will feel wronged. ?
? In addition, whether the old and the young are orderly is also an important key. If a family has no bad habits and no bad habits, then the family must be very chaotic, and there will be constant disputes when getting along together. What's more, if they can't tolerate each other, they will quarrel with each other, can't work together, cooperate with each other, and are unwilling to work hard to produce, so the family industry can't flourish. There is no way to maintain this family. ?
? If everyone actively contributes to the family and helps each other in peacetime, you can use this kind of' forbearance'. Words, do comity, then the family can of course be harmonious. ?
Words of Little Wisdom: Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese studies, said: Treat all kind people, whether they are family members or friends, with two mottos: one is truth, and the other is forbearance. Those who are true, treat each other with sincerity, and are not allowed to resort to deceit; Ninja, tolerate each other. ? What is the secret of Zhang Gongyi's family living under one roof for nine generations? Endure? Words. We should study in our daily life and work? Endure? What is the result of patience? 100% gold production? .
The story of educating children in ancient times (long live the wise and the benevolent)
On one occasion, Aigong asked Confucius for advice and asked: Master, do wise people live longer, or do kind and kind people live longer? Confucius replied:? Here's the thing. A person has three kinds of death, not that he has reached the end of his life, but that he has lost his life. For example, there is no time in daily life, and there is no moderation in diet, which often makes the body overtired or infinitely relaxed. All these are because he doesn't know how to care for his body, which makes him hurt and makes the disease take his life. Second, the lower classes ignored the king and committed the following crimes; For their own hobbies and desires, they refused to control and were insatiable. Such a person, punishment can also take his life. Moreover, there are many sinners with fewer people; I am weak, but I still want to bully the strong; When you are angry, you don't know how to restrain yourself and are impulsive; Or bite off more than one can chew, run amok. In this way, the war between the sword and the soldier can make him die. Like these three situations:' disease killing, punishment killing and soldier killing? , even killed, is also to blame. Honest people, however, are temperate, moral, in a good mood and have integrity, and know how to cultivate their noble temperament, so that they can enjoy a long life. Is it unreasonable?
Words of little wisdom: Huangdi Neijing puts forward:? Life 120 years old, middle life 100 years old, life is 80 years old. ? However, in real life? Is it rare to be 70 years old? This is closely related to people's life concept and lifestyle. If you want to live a long life, you must be satisfied with fewer desires. Regardless of diet, emotions and desires, we should be temperate and self-disciplined, and always keep a calm mind.
The story of educating children in ancient times (Ji Guo (J? ) Hou Ting)
People in Maoling (now Xingping, Shaanxi) in Han Dynasty worshipped Zhou (now Shaanxi) as a secretariat, and they were always kind to the people and kept their word.
On one occasion, he went to Xihe County (now Lishi, Shanxi Province) under his jurisdiction to inspect. There are hundreds of children, each riding a bamboo pole. Ma met Ji Guo on the road, saw him off and asked him when he might come back. Ji Guo calculated and told them the day he came back.
Ji Guo's patrol went well and came back one day earlier than scheduled to tell the children. I was worried that Ji Guo had lost his letter, so he stayed in a wild pavilion at a distance from the city for one night and came to town the next day.
On that day, the children welcomed Ji Guo back on the road. Guangwu Emperor Liu Xiu praised him as a virtuous satrap. Later, Ji Guo lived to be eighty-six.
Ji Guo has acquired the innocence of a child, and he is convinced of it!
Words of wisdom: Honesty is a lifelong course. To be truly innocent, this person's integrity is the ultimate.
The story of educating children in ancient times (five ominous)
Aigong once asked Confucius:? It is said that it is unlucky to build another house on the east side of the house. Is this statement credible?
Confucius replied:? There are five unlucky things, but building another house on the east side of the house is not one of them. It is ominous to be a private interest; It is ominous to abandon the elderly at home and only care about the children; It is ominous for a country to abandon its talents; It is an ominous custom that old wise men are unwilling to teach and young people are unwilling to learn. It is ominous for the world that only talented people retire and fools without wisdom and virtue come to power. ?
Words of wisdom: Auspicious and ominous, not to pursue some external things, but to really start from the source and cultivate auspicious karma, so as to avoid ominous results. This is true wisdom, and it can also help us avoid misfortune and get real good luck.
The story of educating children in ancient times (avoiding illness and seeking medical treatment)
Bian Que was a famous doctor in ancient times. One day, he went to see Cai Huanhou. After studying Cai Huanhou's face carefully, he said? Your majesty, you are ill. Now the disease is only on the surface of the skin. Quick treatment is easy to cure. ? Cai Huanhou disapprovingly said:? I'm not sick! I don't need your treatment! ? Bian Que left, Cai Huanhou said to the left and right. These doctors want to treat people who are not sick all day, so they use this method to prove their skills. ? Ten days later, Bian Que visited Cai Huanhou again. He said anxiously: Your illness has developed to your muscles. You have to treat it quickly! ? Cai Huanhou cocked his head:? I am not sick at all! You go! ? Cai Huanhou was very unhappy after Bian Que left. Ten days later, Bian Que visited Cai Huanhou again. He looked at Cai Huanhou's face and said anxiously. Your majesty, your illness has entered your stomach, and you can't wait any longer! ? Cai Huan Hou shook his head again and again: damn, I didn't get any disease! ? After Bian Que left, Cai Huanhou became even more unhappy. Ten days later, Bian Que visited Cai Huanhou again. He only took one look, turned around and left. Cai Huanhou was puzzled, so he sent someone to ask Bian Que: Why did you turn around and leave when you went to see the king? Bian Que said? Not if you are sick. As long as it is treated in time, the general disease will gradually get better. I'm afraid I'm sick and say I'm not sick. I won't accept treatment. If the disease is in the skin, you can use hot compress; If the disease is in the muscles, acupuncture can be used; You can take soup medicine if your stomach is uncomfortable. However, now the king's illness has penetrated into the bone marrow. I am very ill, so I have to resign myself to my fate and dare not seek treatment for the king any more. ? Sure enough, five days later, Cai Huanhou's illness suddenly broke out. He sent for Bian Que at once, but Bian Que has gone to other countries. A few days later, Cai Huanhou died of illness.
Words of wisdom: If you are sick, you must follow the doctor's instructions and treat honestly. If there are shortcomings and mistakes, we should also listen to everyone's criticism with an open mind and seriously correct them. Otherwise, if you make mistakes again and again, your illness will get worse and worse, and your mistakes will get worse and worse, even to the point where there is no cure.
The story of educating children in ancient times (what is fame and fortune)
Hui Shi is in Liang Dangcheng, and Zhuangzi wants to meet this good friend. Someone quickly reported Keiko:? Zhuangzi will take your place. ? Keiko is scared and wants to stop Zhuangzi. He sent people to search all over the country for three days and nights. Unexpectedly, Zhuangzi calmly visited him and said, There is a bird named Phoenix in the south. Have you ever heard of it? This phoenix spread its wings and flew from the South China Sea to the North Sea in China. It's not the phoenix tree that doesn't live, practice, eat or drink the water from the fountain. At this time, an owl was eating a rotten mouse with relish, just as the phoenix flew overhead. The owl hurried to protect the rotten mouse, looked up at it and shouted,' Scare! ? Now you want to scare me with your Guo Liang?
Another day, Zhuangzi was fishing in the whirlpool. Two doctors appointed by the king of Chu came to hire him and said, "My king has long heard of Mr. Xian's reputation and wants to be tired of state affairs." Mr Wang Shen walked out of the mountain happily, thinking that the king shared his worries and the people were seeking happiness. ? Zhuangzi ignored the pole and said indifferently; ? It is said that there was a turtle in the state of Chu, which was 3000 years old when it was killed. The king of Chu treasured bamboo boxes, covered with brocade, and enshrined them in the temple. Excuse me, two doctors, would this tortoise rather leave a bone after death or wag its tail in muddy water when it is alive? The second doctor said: Nature is willing to wag its tail in the mud and live. ? Zhuangzi said? Two doctors, please go home! I would rather drag my tail in the mud. ?
Words of wisdom: In the eyes of ambitious Zhuangzi, fame and fortune are just a rotten mouse. Zhuangzi has great wisdom, humor, acrimony and boldness. He will never teach us small skills to solve problems, but he will teach us verve and vision.
The story of educating children in ancient times (Ji Chang learned to shoot)
Gan Fei was a famous archer in ancient times. As long as he pulls the bow, he shoots down the beast and the bird. Wei Fei is a student of Gan Fei. Because of his diligent study and practice, he has surpassed his teacher in archery. There's a man named Suotuo who came here to worship Wei Fei as his teacher. Wei Fei said to him? You must first learn not to blink under any circumstances. With this skill, we can talk about archery at school. ? Ji Chang returned home, lying on his back under his wife's loom, his eyes glued to the fast-moving parts. Two years later, he couldn't blink even if he pricked his eyes with a needle. Ji Chang was pleased to report this achievement to Wei Fei. Wei Fei said? It is not enough to have this skill alone, but also to practice good eyesight. You can see very small things, but you can clearly see vague things. With such skills, you can learn archery. ? Ji Chang came home, caught a louse, tied it with a thin oxtail hair and hung it on the window. He stared at the window every day. More than ten days passed, and the lice that became smaller because of dryness gradually became bigger in Jichang's eyes; After practicing for three years, this louse is as big as a wheel in his eyes. He looked at something a little bigger, almost like a mountain, big and clear. Ji Chang drew his bow and arrow and shot at lice. He actually hit it, but the oxtail hair as thin as hair was not broken. Ji Chang was so happy that he reported this new achievement to Wei Fei. Wei Fei nodded again and again and said with a smile: Everything comes to him who waits, you have succeeded! ?
Words of wisdom: to learn any knowledge and skills, we must have tenacious perseverance, step by step, and lay a solid foundation in order to really improve. Effortless? Trick? 、? Shortcut? There is no such thing.
The story of educating children in ancient times (worry-free)
In ancient times, there was a brave general named Xiao. I usually have a hobby, like pottery, and I have a large collection. I will take it out and enjoy it as soon as I have time.
One day, he held a beloved cup in his hand and was envious. He is very happy. Suddenly, when his hand was released, the cup almost fell to the ground. Fortunately, he moved quickly and lifted the cup again. I was scared to sweat at that time. Afterwards, he thought, why am I afraid of knives and guns? I'm sweating for this cup. He kept asking himself: Why?
Suddenly an idea flashed through his mind-all because? Greed for love? With this greed, there will be fear! So he resolutely broke his favorite cup. I feel relaxed now, so I don't have to worry about the roundness of this cup.
Words of wisdom: nothing in the heart is infinite. Life is only a few decades of cold and heat, so why let material desires bind the soul? Sometimes having may not bring happiness, but letting go is a wise choice. When we no longer cling to a cloud, we have inadvertently harvested the whole clear sky.
The story of educating children in ancient times (in distress situation)
In ancient times, there was an old woman who cried in front of a temple whether it was sunny or rainy. People call him cry baby.
One day, an old monk asked her, old man, why are you crying so sad?
The old woman said:? I have two daughters, the eldest sells umbrellas and the younger sells cloth shoes. When the weather is fine, the eldest daughter's umbrella can't be sold; When it rains, no one goes to buy the little daughter's cloth shoes. How can they live without making money? It hurts to think about it. Dude, why is it so hard?
Say that finish, the old woman began to cry sadly again.
? Old woman, why don't you think the other way around? On a sunny day, your little daughter's shoe store is crowded; On rainy days, all the pedestrians in the street ran to your eldest daughter's umbrella shop again. Isn't it not bitter?
The old woman thought what he said was reasonable and followed his advice. From then on, every day I smiled from ear to ear, and the crying woman became a laughing woman.
Words of wisdom: Empathy is to help yourself out of trouble. When you meet someone who makes you sad, something sad, and a situation that you can't walk past, you can learn to put yourself in the other's shoes besides giving time to fade away. In this way, a smile is the best gift.