It's really hard for young parents nowadays. It can be said that it is a stage of "getting older and getting younger". They have to earn money to support their families and have no time to take care of their families, so they can only ask the elderly to help take care of their students' daily lives.
After all, the educational concept of elders will definitely be different from that of parents, and it is normal to have various contradictions. However, young parents should know how to be grateful, think from the perspective of the elderly, and don't enjoy the help of the elderly with a clear conscience.
Parents in different times will see things differently. The educational ideas of the older generation are worth learning, but they also need to be improved. Therefore, parents should handle these contradictions well, don't hurt the hearts of the elderly, and take better care of their children.
In fact, no parents want to miss the growth of students, but the main person in charge of student education is parents rather than the elderly. Although life is hard, parents should bear the burden of education and not be "shopkeepers".
The education of students is a matter for parents and cannot be passed on to the elderly because of the pressure of life. This is not good for the elderly and children, and it will also affect the normal growth of students. Therefore, parents should be clear about their identity and responsibilities.
Old people can help pick up and take care of students' daily life, but on the learning issue, parents should do it themselves, understand their children's learning situation, help their children solve their learning difficulties in time, and at the same time give students more care and make them feel valued, which is very important for their physical and mental health.