General knowledge of social etiquette (classic) 1. Social etiquette knowledge of college students
1, dress etiquette
Clothing is the most vivid self-introduction. Dress according to your age, physical condition and professional characteristics. The basic dress should be fit, decent, appropriate, innovative, personalized, clean and hygienic. College students are mainly neat and generous.
2, behavior etiquette
In life, beauty comes from all aspects. Elegant and generous behavior is the modeling of dynamic beauty and static beauty of human body, which comes from people themselves.
Standing posture: correct and healthy standing posture, the body center of gravity should be placed on the back of your feet; Knees together, abdomen and hips, waist and chest; Shoulders slightly flat back; Stump your neck, close your chin, and raise your head: naturally hang your arms at your sides, or put your lower abdomen in front of your hands.
Sitting posture: the correct sitting posture is straight and upright, and the distance from the desk and chair should be about one punch; Knees together, not legs apart; Your feet are naturally vertical to the ground. Don't cross in front, or stretch your legs back and forth, even in a figure of eight. Put your hands together, palms down or hands clenched, and put them on one side of your body or above your knees.
Walking posture: when walking, look up, look straight ahead, and put your shoulders flat.
Step 3 communicate etiquette
People in China pay attention to "listening to what they say and observing what they do", and regard language and speech as the important content to examine their character.
In the process of conversation, eyes should be gentle, generous and kind, eyes should look up more, eyes should be fixed between the other person's eyes and nose to show their attention or interest in their speech, but also reflect their frankness.
Second, the training of inner cultivation.
1, cultural literacy
College students should study etiquette knowledge hard, understand and master the basic requirements of society for people in etiquette, and arm their minds with etiquette theory. Most educated people understand science and culture. They are thoughtful, thorough in problem analysis, strong in problem-solving ability, quick in thinking, fluent in language, confident and steady, and attractive in social interaction, which makes people feel that they have benefited a lot from knowledge and are happy physically and mentally. On the contrary, people with low cultural literacy lack self-confidence, giving the impression that they are dull, dull or arrogant and shallow.
In real life, the reason why some people do behaviors that do not meet the etiquette requirements in one way or another, or even become harmful to social public interests, is often not because they deliberately do things that do not meet the etiquette at the beginning, but because they don't understand etiquette and can't correctly understand various things, occasions and activities. Raising awareness is the starting point of strengthening etiquette cultivation.
2. Moral cultivation
Only virtue can be polite, and no virtue can be rude. Morality is the foundation of etiquette. In real life, people who are hypocritical, selfish, haggle over every ounce, self-centered, jealous, demanding and complacent cannot be sincere and polite to others. Therefore, only by striving to improve moral cultivation can people's etiquette level be correspondingly high.
3. always reflect on yourself.
Introspection means that a person should always reflect on himself, which is determined by the characteristics of etiquette cultivation. As we all know, etiquette cultivation is a process of self-knowledge, self-dissection, self-education, self-transformation and self-improvement, in which the influence of necessary external conditions is indispensable. Introspection is a regular and conscious self-examination and an important way to improve the ability to judge right and wrong. "I rescue three times a day" is a Confucian cultivation rule, which is also applicable to contemporary college students.
4. Pay attention to practice
People's understanding comes from practice, and whether it is correct or not can only be tested through practice. Therefore, college students should practice etiquette, cultivate their beautiful hearts with etiquette, influence others with their own etiquette behaviors, shorten the distance between people with etiquette, and win others' respect for themselves.
Third, college students have the benefits of common sense of social etiquette.
1 helps to improve college students' interpersonal skills.
Generally, college students live a collective life far away from their parents in their hometown and are equal with other students. Therefore, it is necessary for them to adapt to the new living environment through interpersonal activities and gain friendship in the process of communication. In fact, whether they can establish good interpersonal relationships with others during their college years has a very important influence on a person's growth and study.
Social etiquette is a special language. If college students learn and master the basic knowledge and norms of social etiquette, they can successfully open the door to various communication activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.
2. This is helpful to the moral education of college students.
By studying etiquette classes, college students can better understand society, better understand the laws of social existence, get in touch with people, and better understand what choices a real person should make. People's quality is the result of constant self-selection.
3, can better adapt to society.
In today's society, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to large-scale public communication, from face-to-face close communication to long-distance communication without meeting, from slow-paced low-frequency communication to fast-paced high-frequency communication. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and way of human social etiquette.