1. Teach children to do their own thing. Some parents suffered when they were young. They don't want their children to suffer, so they do everything for them, cleaning the room, washing clothes and washing dishes. This seems to be good for children, but it will make children develop the psychology of relying on their parents and lose their hands-on ability. I don't know what happened after that. Let children know that only themselves are the most reliable. 2. Encourage children more. Children must expect their parents' encouragement to do things, so that they can have confidence. In order to live up to parents' expectations, children will be more motivated to do things.
3. Believe in children. Don't always worry about your child's failure or what he can do if he fails. Believe that your children can do it and let them know that their parents believe in themselves. The trust of parents will bring great security to children. Therefore, let go within a safe range, let the children face it themselves, and master the ways and means to solve things. Parents don't believe in themselves, and children will be sad. 4. Enhance children's sense of responsibility. Teach children to learn to bear, dare to admit mistakes, and inner strength is the real strength. Why children lie may be to avoid parents' blame, so parents should not blame their children blindly after they make mistakes, listen to their children's ideas, encourage them to take responsibility, and don't be cowards who only escape.
5. Don't criticize or laugh at children. "Why can't you even do this well?" Don't tell your child about this situation, it will hurt his self-esteem and make him feel that he can't do anything well and gradually lose his initiative. Parents should help their children analyze the causes of failure, sum up experiences and lessons, and avoid making mistakes next time. 6. Don't say "other people's children" to children. Your own children are the best. Don't equate "other people's children" with your own children, and let them live in the shadow of others. This seems to stimulate children's self-motivation, in fact, it will make children doubt that they are really inferior to others. Over time, their confidence will get smaller and smaller.