Classmate Lao Zhou's father died soon. Lao Zhou always felt that his mother lived alone in a big house. She is so lonely, no one to talk to and no one to accompany her. After a long time, I was afraid that she would be depressed, so I took my mother to live together. Anyway, the child is married and went out alone. The three of them watch TV and cook when they are free. It's interesting and harmonious.

My wife is also very generous. After all, she is well educated and her parents are Buddhist teachers. Tell her to respect the elderly from an early age. Since her husband brought it up, she also readily agreed.

Lao Zhou's mother comes from the countryside, with low education level and weak personality, and is easily persuaded. When Lao Zhou's father was seriously ill, he specifically told her not to go to her son's daughter's house as a last resort. They are a normal family, and one more person will disrupt their life rhythm and easily lead to conflicts. When you get along with children, you should remember the phrase "the fragrance is far away and the smell is near".

Lao Zhou hurriedly discussed with his mother. Her mother thought about what her father said and didn't agree at first. But in order to be filial, Lao Zhou patted his chest and said that his wife wanted her to live at home. Mother was very moved, packed a box of things for her own use, got on Lao Zhou's car and left.

The first few days were peaceful, and gradually the contradictions were exposed. Mom has bad teeth and can't eat too hard food. When Lao Zhou's wife cooks, she will cook for a while and try to cook the rice soft. Soon, my mother said that there were too many peppers and seasonings, and my heart ached after eating them. Lao Zhou quickly told his wife not to put pepper and seasoning. The wife didn't say anything, but Lao Zhou felt that the meal was clear and tasteless.

The old mother went to bed at eight o'clock in the evening, and there should be no noise at home. Lao Zhou's wife has the habit of watching TV plays after supper. Sometimes the TV is louder and the old mother coughs in the bedroom. Lao Zhou doesn't want to hear it. Can't she scold her wife a little? My wife is also a face of injustice, pointing to the back and saying, look at the time!

The old mother has high blood pressure and has to lie in bed for a while from time to time. Lao Zhou's wife is busy in the kitchen. She was a little unhappy when she saw this scene. She complained to Lao Zhou that your mother was lying in bed when she was fine, and she couldn't come to the kitchen to peel onions, so she was full of energy. Lao Zhou is also a grumpy person. He won't persuade others, and scolding his wife may not be as old as her mother.

Lao Zhou's wife is a picky person. She eats vegetables with chopsticks. Old mother was not used to it when she first came, so she put chopsticks on the plate when she was eating. First, Lao Zhou's wife kindly reminded her several times. At last, she couldn't bear it and said a few blunt words. That's great. The old lady is angry.

The old lady ran to the bedroom and began to cry, cursing and leaving her wife first. Lao Zhou stood by apologizing and called his wife to explain to his mother. The old lady said that she was not angry, but she still had a knot in her heart.

A few days later, Lao Zhou's sister heard that her mother was suffering from anger at Lao Zhou's house, so she ran to Lao Zhou's house with her husband to find fault. Lao Zhou's wife was unhappy and quarreled with her, so Lao Zhou's sister and husband packed the old lady's things and drove her to their home.

What happened at my daughter's house is a replica of my son's. After living for a long time, all kinds of contradictions come. I am not used to eating, working, sleeping and living. Finally, the daughter and son-in-law became sworn enemies. Three days of small noise, five days of big noise. The old lady can't stay any longer. She packed her things and went home.

I am alone, very quiet. I’m not doing anything right now. I go for a walk in the park, go to the vegetable market after exercise and buy some vegetables and fruits I like, regardless of the children. Strangely, when the old lady came home, the children kept calling all day, asking for help, and buying something to visit every now and then, which was very affectionate.

This reminds the old lady of what her wife said, and she should have a sense of distance with her children. Getting too close is a mutual torment.