Recently, Huo Siyan-style education has caught fire on the Internet, which has aroused the praise of netizens and the thinking of parents. Huo Siyan doesn't fight or scold, so that Uh-huh can grow up healthily and happily.
In education in Huo Siyan, respect comes first.
How did Huo Siyan cultivate such a sensible person? UH huh? After reading it, I know that Huo Siyan is very gentle, patient and completely respectful to Uh-huh, which makes Uh-huh more confident and sensible. In the program, Huo Siyan took Uh-huh to donate his toys. At first, Mm-hmm refused like many children, but Huo Siyan didn't force Mm-hmm, but slowly and patiently reasoned with Mm-hmm.
She said that children always have a process of growing up slowly. If he doesn't accept it now, she is willing to give up. Later, Huo Siyan's Ma Bao drove to Nankai. Well, the children learned to help others and agreed to Huo Siyan's request.
From here we can see the power of respect. If you want to educate children, you must first respect them. Only by treating children as an independent individual and giving patient guidance can children get better education from their parents. If you don't respect your child and hold your head high blindly, your child will only become more and more rebellious and move in the opposite direction.
When parents respect their children, they respect themselves.
A child needs his parents to respect him as an independent individual, not his parents' attachment. His thoughts, feelings and property all need the respect of adults. For example, it is a kind of respect not to disturb him when he is focused on one thing, and it is also a kind of respect to whisper when calling him; When using his things, of course, you have to ask his permission first. Perhaps, some parents will think that their children's things are not bought by their parents, so why do they need his permission? However, the sense of self-worth brought by these small aspects is very important to a child's life.
Many parents are eager to pass on all their experience and knowledge to their children, but Du Jiang said, "I don't want my children to grow up overnight." . Respect children's growth and don't impose your thoughts and wishes on them. This is respect for children.
Respect is a virtue. When you respect others with your heart, your virtue can also be instantly reflected as a thank you when you get help. Respect, you can't ignore your child's feelings just because you are a parent. Respecting others is a kind of beauty and a virtue. When you respect others or are respected by others, that virtue will accompany you, and your morality should also respect each other and be beautiful. It is not difficult to see that respect is closely related to virtue.