Share the experience of family education. When parents educate their children, they should not only see their advantages, but also their shortcomings. Praise children when they see their advantages, and criticize them when they see their shortcomings. Being a parent is not easy. When parents educate their children, the education methods should be consistent and there should be no differences. There will be many difficulties and problems on the way to educating children. As long as problems are often found and solved, good results will be achieved.
Correctly understand the methods of educating children
Children have to meet many teachers since childhood, but parents and families are the same, which lays the foundation for the importance of family education. Family environment has a great influence on children. Many parents don't let their children do anything for their parents in order to let them concentrate on their studies. As long as they can do it instead of their children, they try their best to help them finish it, thinking that it is concerned about their study. In fact, this is an extremely wrong practice. Children's learning is not only in writing, but also in life. We should give children a chance to do it themselves. What children make by themselves is their proudest gift. What our parents have to do is to show their children the direction and tell them the way to solve the problem. Treat children equally, don't criticize with your own preferences, parents should encourage and reason with their children.
Let children learn to think independently.
Children's thinking can be developed. In our life, we should encourage children to think independently and know what is right or wrong. We instill it directly into children, but it doesn't play an essential role. Children's own understanding of problems and things will often bring lifelong value to children. Parents are children's first teachers and role models, and children are parents' mirrors. In order to see their excellent children, parents should first control their bad habits and let their children learn good living habits.
Improve children's ability through play.
Many parents think that children should study hard, but they are afraid that their children will be playful. In fact, playing is also a good way to educate children; In kindergarten, teachers give children a lot of knowledge and truth, but many sports and hobbies can't be taught by teachers. Therefore, parents can cultivate their children's abilities in all aspects through play. For example, riding a bicycle can train children's balance ability. When children learn to ride bicycles, they can be taught to learn long jump and high jump, and they can also play ball games and play chess with them. Children will also learn a lot about their abilities while playing.
Sharing the experience of family education II Through studying in parents' school, I further realized the important role of family education in promoting quality education and helped me to establish a correct view of education and talents. I will cooperate with schools and teachers to educate my children well, and I have learned one vivid and meaningful lesson after another in my parents' school, which has benefited me a lot. While every parent wants his child to succeed and his daughter to succeed, how important family education is in the process of children's growth, and it also makes me feel more deeply that it is difficult to be a teacher, a parent and a qualified parent. Being a good parent has a long way to go. Fortunately, there is a parent school. Through her, I have a deeper and newer understanding of family education. While trying to be a good parent, I have also changed and improved in various aspects. Now I will talk about my superficial experience as follows:
The first is the change of educational concept. Through the lectures of several teachers, I understand the requirements of the school for children and how to cooperate with the school to do a good job in children's education. Because I think children listen to teachers best, and I even thought so before. I send my children to school, and it is the school teacher who has the final say in learning well and learning badly, forming a kind of dependence psychology. Through learning, I understand that parents should actively participate in the family education for their children, communicate with teachers more, find the balance between school and family, and organically combine school education with family education to achieve the best effect of education. Through the teacher's lecture, I understand that the core of education is to cultivate children's healthy personality, to cultivate children's self-confidence is the first secret of success, and to cultivate good habits is more important than grades.
Secondly, I have mastered the knowledge and methods of family education and improved my educational ability. Through study, I understand how parents should educate their children. Family is the first classroom to educate children, and parents are their first teachers. The quality of family education will directly affect the healthy growth of children. In daily life, we should pay attention to our words and deeds, educate our children to be polite, abide by various codes of conduct, cultivate children's good behavior habits, create a good growth environment for children, actively cultivate children's various hobbies, often take children to participate in activities beneficial to the body and mind, take them out on holidays to increase their knowledge, and cultivate children's good habits such as loving labor, respecting the old and loving the young, being hard-working and frugal. At the same time, I think in family education, children should be patient and not rude. I personally realize that children sometimes? Disobedient? There are also his reasons. As long as you are patient, you can certainly find out the reason why he made a mistake. Only in this way can you educate your children to treat both the symptoms and the root causes.
Third, improve their own quality. As a child's first school, parents always act as? Teacher? Therefore, we must improve the quality of our education. By listening to the teacher, I have mastered some knowledge about parent-child communication. I know how to assign tasks to children, how to deal with children's demands and rejections, and how to deal with children's anger. To educate children well, we must first establish a good parent-child relationship, make friends with children and respect them. As a qualified parent, we should also be an example, which requires our parents to lead by example! Cultivating children's concept of time and giving them limited time can help them concentrate on things and improve their learning efficiency.
The fourth view of children's success. Through learning, it is clear what kind of person to train children into. The times require the society to cultivate compound new talents to meet the needs of the times. We must cultivate our children into a new generation with good moral quality and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor. In daily life, we can't simply pursue high scores and high education, but ignore the cultivation of children's personality, will and innovation ability. At the same time, we should teach children to get along with different people, cultivate their communication and independent living ability, cultivate their sense of competition and cooperation spirit, and let them become a healthy and developed person in the future.
In short, the child is still young, and the cultivation of his ability to distinguish between right and wrong and good behavior should come from the education he has seen in his daily life, the environment he has been exposed to and the things he has been exposed to, and the correct educational methods should be chosen for the child. Now I have deeply realized that being a parent is an art that needs lifelong learning. While caring about his food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is more important to guide him correctly and educate him patiently in all aspects so that his children can become useful people in the future. Family education is the foundation and foundation of education. Without good family education, it is difficult to establish a good school education. Of course, school education in turn affects family education. Children spend a long time in school, and the interaction of classmates and the encouragement of teachers will affect the growth of children throughout their lives. The growth of children must rely on the joint efforts of families and schools.
Family education experience sharing 3 In today's society, the education of family and only child has become a concern. Children are the hope of the family and the future of society. It is the common wish of our parents all over the world to hope that our children and our daughters will succeed. As parents, we should cultivate our children into independent people with enough ability and confidence to leave us and become independent individuals in family life and social life. But how to educate children, especially how to do a good job in early childhood education, has become a difficult problem for every parent. As we all know, the family is the first living environment for children, and the influence of parents is so great and far-reaching. The following are some of my experiences in educating children.
First, respect children's questions and pay attention to the cultivation of intelligence. We never deliberately taught her what to learn, but only answered her questions seriously when the child asked questions; Teach her to recognize the words in some books she likes to read, give her some books she likes, let her learn to read and tell stories by herself, tell me a story at ordinary times, and then let her tell me one by herself, so that she can have a strong interest in learning.
Second, respect and guide children's thoughts and pay attention to moral education. Pay attention to children's moral cultivation, no matter what the occasion, it is required not to hit people, swear or swear. Our parents are the children's first teachers. At home, when we are with children, we shouldn't swear or do excessive behavior. When a child finds out that his parents have done something wrong, we parents should take the initiative to admit the mistake and guide her to admit it when she makes a mistake.
Third, pay attention to the cultivation of children's independence. In the process of children's growth, education is inseparable, and education is inseparable from respect. Respect does not mean connivance. In normal times, to treat children as independent people, we should listen to their thoughts, discuss problems with them, and learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes. What should we do if our parents encounter the same problem themselves? Will they do it like children? We can't use our own ideas, patterns and ways of thinking to decide what children should and shouldn't do, let alone use the authority of parents to suppress children's ideas. Let children have their own ideas and independence, respect their independence, give them their own space, and let them learn to brush their teeth, wash their faces and dress. Let them learn to think independently and have their own abilities and knowledge.
These are just some of my experiences in educating children. Now is the only child era. In early childhood education, we have also experienced a process from ignorance to gradual understanding. In terms of educating children, the differences in family environment have created different educational methods. Parents want their children to grow up healthily. I believe that as long as parents can pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, their children will be successful and brilliant.