1, correctly guide children to work, so that children can know that housework should not be just a matter of individuals or parents, but the responsibility of the whole family. The family is a whole, and every family member should contribute his own strength to make this family better, and no one can escape. 2. Change your ideas Parents should change their ideas. Doing housework is not a waste of children's study time, but an indispensable "course" for children's growth. ...... Doing housework is actually more like a communication between children and parents. By doing housework, children can better understand the hardships and difficulties of their parents, thus encouraging children to study harder. 3. Work together. Family members participate in the work and perform their duties. In this atmosphere, children will be more willing to take part in labor, and then they can learn how to cultivate their sense of responsibility more quickly. If children don't want to do housework, you can't force them to do it, which will make them more rebellious, especially adolescent children. ...... At this time, parents should talk with their children more. Discuss patiently with children and choose one or two housework that is not too difficult for them to do. 4, praise more children who are less responsible for the first contact with housework, it is likely to be rough and sloppy. After all, many children may be doing housework for the first time. ...... At this time, parents should not be too harsh, but should give their children appropriate encouragement, so that the children will be more motivated to continue. 5. It's important to draw a clear line. When asking children to do housework, tell them what housework to do. This housework should not be too vague and the boundaries are unclear. For example, some parents ask their children to clean up the house, so that the children will be very confused. They don't know whether to wash the dishes, clean the table or mop the floor. ..... Parents must tell their children clearly what to do, so that children can accurately understand their parents' requirements, complete tasks better and happier, and avoid quarrels. 6. Be a good example. Parents must set an example for their children. If parents are too lazy to do housework and show disgust at housework, then children under this influence will definitely resist participating in housework. Because this negative emotion will be passed on to children. ...... So, share more positive emotions. Especially for most dads who love watching TV or playing, this behavior should be corrected in time to set a correct example for their children. 7. Wrong Motivation Now many parents will choose to use money transactions to motivate their children to complete housework, that is, to give their children pocket money to get their children's jobs. For example, if a child brushes ten bowls, he will be given ten dollars. However, this approach has both advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that children's work enthusiasm can be fully mobilized. ..... but it may have more disadvantages, and too much money is used to achieve the goal. Over time, children become eager for success, willing to use money to measure their own value, while ignoring the meaning of responsibility.