Listen carefully
First of all, we need to calm down and listen to the children's voices. Understand the details of their bullying and their feelings and thoughts. We want our children to know that they are not alone and that we will always stand with them.
Establish a relationship of mutual trust
It is important to establish a relationship of mutual trust, so that children will be willing to open their hearts to us. We want to send a message to our children: we are their strong backing, and we will accompany them whenever and wherever.
Close communication with the school
If your child is bullied at school, you must get in touch with the school in time. Understand the school's anti-bullying policies and measures, communicate with teachers or counselors, and ask the school to conduct an in-depth investigation of bullying incidents and take corresponding measures. Schools can take a series of actions to protect children's rights and interests, such as interviewing bullies, giving punishment and providing psychological counseling.
Teach children to deal with it.
We need to teach children how to deal with bullying and provide strategies to solve problems. Tell children that when they encounter bullying, they should seek help, such as teachers, counselors or other adults. At the same time, educate children to remain calm in the face of bullying and avoid retaliation.
Enhance children's self-confidence
Bullying may cause trauma to children's minds, so we need to help children rebuild their self-confidence. Praise their strengths, encourage them to play their strengths and participate in activities of interest, thus enhancing their self-confidence.