Contrary to "persuasion", it is simple and rude, forcing orders.
There are many reasons for some students' unsatisfactory academic performance. Only by finding out the reason can we prescribe the right medicine. In particular, students have different interests and hobbies, and parents' will cannot be imposed on others. For example, when a student was in middle school, his parents chose the road of literature for him. He only attended school for one semester. The teacher said that he worked hard, but he was too rigid to learn literature. So I changed to oil painting, but I have a poor understanding of art and am not good at composition and color matching. Later, the chemistry teacher found that he was meticulous in his work and had the qualities needed to do a good job in chemical experiments, and suggested that he study chemistry. This time, the spark of his wisdom was ignited, and he was far ahead in chemistry, and later won the Nobel Prize in chemistry. He is Otto wallach. If Otto's parents forced him to choose literature, a great chemist would have been strangled.
Another example is Wang, a steel worker in Shenyang. He is bent on making his only daughter a pianist. He saved money to buy a grand piano, but his 5-year-old daughter doesn't want to learn at all. But he still forced his daughter to practice piano for eight or nine hours every day, otherwise she would be severely reprimanded. She hates the piano, hates her father, and looks at her father at work. One day, she picked up a kitchen knife and cut the piano beyond recognition, but she was afraid that her father would come back to blame, so she drank dichlorvos in the corner and ended her young life. This tragedy is the consequence of mandatory orders!
Parents sometimes spoil their children too much, but it is easy to cause rebellious psychology. For example, Comrade Zhao Yan, the grandson of Ye Shengtao, told his lesson. When the daughter 16 years old, the well-behaved and docile daughter suddenly became "rebellious". She does everything. She sleeps late at night and in the morning. She often watches TV that her parents are bored with, and then talks about singers. Therefore, her father flew into a rage and her daughter thought he was nagging. There are often some disputes between father and daughter. One day, he actually hit his daughter.
Later, my daughter went abroad and got on the plane. My daughter stuffed a diary for her mother. After reading this diary, he felt very ashamed. It turned out that he ignored the simplest fact: the child has grown up and does not need her mother-in-law's nagging, but needs another kind of care. Parents' love is sometimes selfish, full of impurities and unbalanced. They put forward some excessive demands on their children, as if they would never grow up. They keep asking for this and that. The demands are too urgent and too high, which makes the children feel uneasy and unbearable.